I don’t get on here often so I’m not sure if its me or the system but I cant get my TER instant messenger to load. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to fix this

DarkLove is the Board Moderator, but he does so much more for this community, you can PM him and ask.  He can at least ensure your question is directed to someone who can help you in this.  On another subject - you should post more, for example - there are several ladies who participate in forum theme pics (HINT)  

Tell her bw ,I've tried to get her on ,cause she has fans here and she is so low volume that I think she forgets about us! lol
tc 2hot ...luv ya' babee

I never forgot about you.... and havent forgotten about anyone on here. im actually trying to figure all this online messenger and this board to i can stay in touch with ya'all. I have been home alone trying to figure it all out. you wanna come over and keep me company its pretty lonely here maybe you can show me why my messenger isnt working