Don't be a pile driver be a limo driver - take her special places in a special way Bro

Good luck!

Maybe you need someone that is good at....

TnD... Tease and denial I REALLY think you would like that baby. IMO this is what you are describing? Warning it IS intense lol If you just want to hold out on the one pop, this may work very well for you. It is somewhat a dominant experience though sooo lets do it (bitch lol)  
Great to see you back on the boards baby and hope you are well
Hugs and kisses
TL

Who say otherwise are lying, and probably also claim to have a 10 inch cock as thick as a can of soda.

squeeze me with her hand right at the base for 30 seconds or so.  Urge would subside and I'd be good to go.

Advice for your "friend"

It takes practice...to learn the art of holding out...you have to learn your body....and learn how to control your breathing....but most of all you have to go slow and let it build....and when you feel the urge...slow down...or change it up a little - over time you get more focused on bringing pleasure to the lady and less focused on you....then when it all comes (no pun intended) together you will be in control of your release and not it of you....  

My focus is on the woman....that helps me not focus on me...and I like to let the,passion build but when it's time to let it go...just let it go.....don't sweat it....there are lots of lovely ladies here in ATL that can help....

In the words of Mr Miyagi...

Paint the fence - side to side....
Wax on- wax off
Better learn balance...balance is key....balance good...sex good....everything good...

Good luck....