OK, I'm on a roll this week so why not start another thread and see if we get any response.  
   
 Some guy is into race play and he takes a ton of shit for demeaning, racist, hitler etc.    
   
 What's up with spitting on each other?  I absolutely hate that.  If you are spitting because you are into playing a role and demeaning the other person...OK, as long as you both are ok with it, have fun.  But for me, it's just offensive.  
   
 If you want to provide pleasure, use your tongue.  If you want to provide lubricity, but don't want to put your tongue there (No such place exists on a woman for me) use lube.  If you want lubricity but don't have lube and won't put your tongue there...damn, I don't know, GIVE UP.  
   
 But I have noticed a trend on porn and on boards and even in a session or two where spitting is the norm.  On their pussy, ass, cock, face/mouth.....  Personally I HATE it.  There is no intimacy, provides no pleasure and is commonly referred to as one of the most divisive and dismissive gesture one can make.  
   
 Make no mistake, I'm not prude, quite the opposite...and again I say if both parties are into it...  
 But damn, the whole appeal escapes me.  
   
   
 Am I alone in this?