Ok, what floats your boat?  What sort of attitude do you like when you are in the room?  I know it can very from time to time, but what theme is best for you?

Teasy flirt?  
Aggressive and gets right to it?  
Demanding and has her way?
Plesaing and wants to make sure you have your way?
Vocal?
Whispers dirty things in your ear?

.....judging from the replies, someting more IS needed. Perhaps the title was too subtle? :-P Sorry....could not resist!

I was going for subtle and it appears I am good at it.