Hello I'm new to being a "VIP" not new to the "hobby" but after making a few relationships mistakes I might need to become a hobbyist. I'm 36 years old I've had some decent woman and some horrible ones I feel too old to have my heart broken or just be with someone for hell of it. Starting 2014 I believe I'm ready I have some providers that I stay in contact with now, just would like to hear some opinions

That's a decision everybody has to make for themselves. Pretty much everybody on here has their own stories as to why they hobby. It's hard for us to tell you to just hobby and forget having a GF at your age. Personally I hobby because I like nothing better than to slide my dick into a sweet hot young girl....LOL...... This is a safe way and a win win for everybody. Personally I have a GF that lets me FS hobby but only with my longtime ATF and her girls. This is just one of the many reasons and stories you may here about this hobby. Sit down and think about it and decide for yourself!

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I would say go for it!  Loads of fun and you get to do things that may not be available from a civvie girl. That said I would also urge you to get your pick up skills sharp that is try to get laid every chance you get. Keep your eyes open at a bar or grocery store or gym. Always know if you fail at the pick up all you have to do is pick up the phone for the hook up!

Perhaps I'm taking that out of context intended, but doing 'anything stupid' could get anyone here in a boatload of trouble.  
Have fun, yes, but always make intelligent decisions to ensure favorable outcomes.

relationship issues you may have. I have my own reasons for hobbying. I just like to fuck a different lady. If you do hobby understand that it is not Match.com. My best advice if want to hobby then fuck a bunch of girls. Never see one lady for back to back dates. I have 3 girl rule. Meaning that I won't repeat until I see three other ladies. This protects me from becoming overly attach to a hooker. It also helps you to keep your references current.

Good advice!!

.....on what you are looking for. If you need a break from dating, you have come to the right place. If you ultimately want a relationship, you probably won't find it here.