Don't worry about it.  Sometimes good guys on this board even pick up an a-hole quality.  It can be contageous.

Basically, if you are new the help you will find is limited.  Nothing against you, but everyone has to be fairly cautious with new faces/names in this hobby.  So I would recommend using the search function and find a girl with a few reviews(probably 4 or 5 plus) and set up to be screened and go see her.  And then write a review.  Once you have a review or two under your belt people will be a little more helpful.

However, if you are looking for just a massage session, info and reviews are gonna be more limited there anyway.  And my personal knowledge there is limited so I can't really help you.  Most reviews you will find here are for a "girlfriend experience" which is a little more intimate than a massage parlor session with a happy ending.

Oh, and I'm guessing you don't have a VIP membership so when you are looking for that girl to go see you will only be able to see limited details about her reviews.  But if she has multiple reviews and no one writes anything terrible in the general info, just take a chance.  That's all you can do.

Have fun and be safe.