This seems to be a promblem lately, however I wanted to discuss the importance of screening for you guys and what to expect.

I have had sevral calls today and 7 of My calls have had a issue with refrences or screening.

I realize for some of you guys discretion is a must, however you have to consider us Ladies and what we have to deal with.

The last thing we want is to deal with LE, however unfortunently LE is always making calls and always setting up stings.  You can tell a Lady all day that you're not LE untill you're blue in the face, however that means nothing to us, this actually does'nt help, it only makes us more dis-intrested.  Ever hear those horror story's of Ladies in the buz getting raped and killed? Yea, those are pretty scary stories for us.  I am not saying that we don't know the risks with our jobs, however we can only do what we can to decrease any danger.

I realize some of you guys are hesitent to give any information on yourselves, not knowing a Lady and some of you may have a few horror stories yourself, but for the most part you guys are safer then us gals.

So guys help us out.

When calling be prepared to have 2 numbers.  I perpher a cell and office number.  (sometimes one number will due for some of us Ladies).

If you have refrences from at least 2 Ladies you have seen before, that is always awsome! When giving your refrence, make sure you have their URL and telephone number and be sure to tell us how this provider would remember you.  If you don't want to share refrence information because your afraid that the refrence will call you back bitching at you because your seeing another Lady, well then that sounds like a promblem that needed to be dealt with a long time ago!  I am an escort, not your jealouse girlfriend.

Always make sure you have your ID with you and if you have a passport along with it extra kudos to you! I have no promblem showing a person My ID as well.

I hope this helps some of you guys to understand, and hopefully you will take My advice.

Any of you Ladies have something to add?

Kisses,
Monica

-- Modified on 3/8/2004 10:48:28 AM

do other escorts really remember the names and numbers of previous clients? I've only been with 2 providers over a period of a year doubt they'd remember me, one of which kept calling me asking when we're going to meet again. That was weird and annoying.

here's my concern if a provider keeps the name and number of everyone she's been with what happens if those numbers and names get into the wrong hands? Don't get me wrong i'm not against screening or the safety of the situation but on both sides there are some concerns. Other than public meeting there has to be a better way to screen in which both sides can agree with no save of clients info.

i'd like to meet more escorts but really don't have any references, i work from home (no real office number), i'm young and prefer outcalls (i drive a flashy rare color car which is easy to spot). it sucks for me, but i'm still searching for that one provider, that i can see regularly (3-5 times a wk).

maybe someone can post some ideas for screening

I think I can keep up with My guys for the most part.

I do NOT keep numbers or names anywhere!
Believe it or not us gals have a pretty good memory.  When I call a Lady for a refrence, she usually asks me what the guy does for a living, I also ask the gentelman for a physical description so when their refrence is trying to remember I can always ask what the guy looks like.  Typically refrences can only be given if a gentalman has seen the lady recently (usually within a month) or sees her frequently.

I realize that not all you guys have refrences, but their are other ways of screening, so don't sweat it.

Kisses,
Monica