I posted this on the other board but want to make sure to bring this issue back into the forefront again. We can never be too safe!

I want to make this post not to flame anyone but to warn those of us who care about our safety. I received a pm from yahoo not to long ago from someone who was interested in setting up an appointment. I asked him to use my contact form to do so. He didn't like that but he begrudgingly started to do so. When it came to the part of using a provider reference he didn't have one. I told him he had to have one or find another provider who would see him without one. Now I know I could take the time to meet him in person outside of my appointment but I don't have the time to do so. I have done it in the past but I can't now. I am very very busy. He told me he didn't want to see a sleazy provider. I told him there were plenty of beautiful women who would be able to help him . I told him I do not ever compromise my policies and I would hope he would appreciate my level of professionalism and safety. He then told me that he would then give bad referrals of me. This isn't the reason I am posting. I am posting because for one thing he didn't want to adhere to my standards of safety and policy. He gave me a super hard time about providing a reference and when I didn't say what he wanted he threatened me. Lastly, he used a yahoo alias. I have no idea who this person is, what he wants or what his true intentions were. You aren't going to get brownie points by threatening me and sure as hell lose all hope of seeing me EVER!


This is a PRIME example as to why we have to keep our safety standards unwavering. I have my set of parameters and they may be different than others. Nonetheless, they are what we feel are important for us to enjoy ourselves fully when we are visiting with you.

Ladies, please be safe. Don't ever waiver from what you feel is right.