Don't ask me where these questions are coming from but just go with me on this... lol

What do you find sexy in a person?  Is it the way they carry themselves? The way the make love? The way the kiss and leave you breathless? Does the way he/she dances against you in a club make you want to tear their clothes off right there on the dance floor?  Is it the way he licks his lips before he kisses you and you can see that lustful look in his eye? Maybe it's his sexy lips or his thick muscular legs... What about when he/she puts their hand in the small of your neck to grab you and place that first anticipated, ever so passionate kiss you have wanted since you saw them?

Maybe it's the first time you are introduced to the fine and sexy way of drinking a good Scotch. Listening to a true Southern man speak and they way that they truly worship  a woman... How about when you get lost in thier conversation and you get dizzy from the way they speak and what they are saying. There ain't much more sexy than that...

For me, it's so much more and all of these combined... Sex appeal comes in all kinds of different ways but I tell you, sexual anticipation makes me wet writing this... poor fella tomorrow doesn't know what he is in for! lol

As always, think naughty thoughts,

B






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your eye's brooke!!

Good question, besides the things you mention it really goes into what I've said all along; everyone is sexy in some way or another. You just gotta find it is all. More often than not though people get hung up on the way someone looks and never takes the time to delve a little deeper into their psychi to see what's inside. Hence my decade plus of virtual solitude and relationship deprivation, I feel mostly in part on account of my obesity.

With that being said, what is sexy to me ... pretty much anything with two tits, a hole and a heartbeat. And not necessarilly in that order

Jimbo

Two tits, a hole and a heartbeat??....how about gender, age etc??  I am sure you are kidding though so won't give you a hard time.  There are many large men who have girl friends and married.  A good disposition, attitude will find you a lady.  If you are not happy with your wgt. you can change it.  Just find an activity you enjoy.  Hiking trails, bike riding (they even have hiking groups that meet differnt areas around the city to hike).  Join wgt watchers you can meet alot of women there also
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Let me know how it goes...!  Raven
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Of course I'm kidding ... hence the at the end of my post.

As for age, it's just a number. Gender, well, I'm strong enough for a man, but I'm PH balanced for a woman.

My good dispostion and attitude has gotten me nothing but hurt and heartache the last 18 years or so. I'm one of the sweetest, kindest, most caring, tenderhearted, compassionate and not to mention down right fun guys I know. But in relationships, I'm the best friend, the one the girls go to when they're down about their idiot boyfriends doing something stupid. I'm the go-to guy, "cheer me up Jim," etc. Always the bridesmaid, never the bride. Or something like that.

As for my weight and changing it ... I've been fighting tooth and nail to get approved for SSI/Medicaid for the last 18 months so I can have a gastric bypass. It's the only way. I've done every diet and exercise routine on the market. Just did Weight Watchers ... again ... and lost 6 pounds then immediately put on 10 lbs. in 8 weeks. Diets don't work. Period. Doing anything truly physical is painful at my weight, thus, surgery is needed. I've done my homework, and lots of it to find the best of the best here in Florida, and found it. Now that I finally did get approved for SSI, after two denials and an appeal hearing before a judge, I will soon be on my way to being on the operating table. Then, on my way to healthier me.

Thanks for the concern.

Jimbo

My sister inlaw is going to have the same thing and she can hardly wait...Let us know how it goes

Terri

that is wonderful!!

Keep us posted I hope only the best for you! xo

I also happen to think determination and bravery are very sexy.

xoxo
B

I appreciate it very much. Having surgery is the biggest decision I've ever had to make for myself. It wasn't easy to admit that I had gotten to a point where I was unemployable and needed surgery to regain my health.

I don't see myself as brave, determined yes, brave ... those men and women are in another league. Like firemen, soldiers, those people are brave to me. But I do appreciate the comparison.

Thanks so much,

Jimbo

We all face different problems in our lives. You sound like you made a decission for yours. I do hope all works the way you planned. The biggest step is realizing there is a problem and taking the steps to make it happen. I have a very positive attitude and I hope all things work so you can have one to.
BEST OF LUCK with all that you have to go through.
A Friend
I am not a lady--just a guy

Thank you very much strike 3, so kind of you to say. It was tough to admit, and to be, what I was brought up with as being 'weak' admitting you needed help. Physical and psychological, so it's been a tough 18 months. But we all know the greater the struggle the greater the reward.

Just today I got an email from someone, don't know if it's a male or female, but their starting weight was 425 (I'm 413) they had their surgery on October 7, 2002. Today, just a short 13 months later, they weighed in at 190. What an amazing lifestyle change that will bring. That's less than I weighed in high school!!

Thanks for the support everyone, and I'll keep you posted as to when my surgery will be.

Jim in Florida ºoº