Emailed a well reviewed (back to 2001)on Friday about a 2 o'clock on Sat. Know it was short notice, so I went ahead and provided references (Sherie,Madison..the point is,reputable awesome ladies) phone,etc. She had no form online (I hate those things anyway). She emailed back the next morning only saying 'I'm available'. I wrote back asking if my references were checked out?, does this mean we're on?, What part of town r you in? She only said where she was located, to the point where all I didn't have was her apt./hotel #. With the info she had given I assumed we were on (my mistake) and then realized I didn't have a phone #. Wrote her back and she responded 2 seconds later with phone #.

   I ask my fellow hobbyist, given the info above, at that point would you have thought the date was a go?

  It's 30 minutes before and so I figured I'd call to say I was in route. She picks up phone and I said it was me ,that we had talked via email, and that I was on my way. She said "woah, what's your occupation and age?" I said 34 and that I was a songwriter/musician. She asked where I play and I told her. She says 'I don't feel comfortable with this as it seems we run in the same circles'. She goes on to say that she only sees older executive types and that she DIDN'T WANT TO WASTE MY TIME. At this point I had invested the whole morning into this when I could have been looking somewhere else.

  Look, her safety is her own but her worry was that I was gonna blow her cover in town. She has a face pic in her add (she is hot) so I don't get this. I'm well connected in the music scene here and have never seen her once. What pisses me off is that she charges $350 an hour, gives me the info I described above and then says 'I don't feel comfortable'? If your an aging band chick/ex-stripper that doesn't want to get busted by your 'bar star' boyfriend, that's cool. But if your gonna do this and charge $350 an hour for it, how bout some fucking time courtesy and get your info before you pass out your location and 'Yes, I'm available'.. Ladies, you have what we want but please don't do it like this. Considering the info I got from her, the references that I provided (that she didn't bother to check), and her pissy 'I'm not comfortable' attitude after wasting my day I must say, I was offended. Honey, you may get paid well because your hot and you fuck but you ain't no rockstar...no matter what you think. The self absorption thing with some providers is getting old quick. We're paying good money, so get with it. This makes me treasure women like Madison, Sherie, Kendall,Ginger etc.who get this. If I'm acting like a brat, tell me...I can take it. Makes me not want to go out of my loop again.

  Ended up with a nice but not as advertised massage. Should have quit before I spent. I suprised the young massage chick with my load of cum (5 big shots) Her 'my God, your a shooter!' was a bright spot to the day at least. It's always the little things.

Thanks for the vent. Please feel free to tell me where I went wrong LOL!

Sir Cumalot

thanks

Sorry this happened to you...and now I know who you are  You should come back and see me soon, I need a CD ( wink )...
Kisses,
Sherie ( AKA Blondetoplay )

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Without divulging the providers name, it's not worth my time and effort giving you my opinion.
Just my .02 pesos.

Numbnut and Bbulls,

 Look guys. this provider has 10 pages of reviews going back to 2001 that are very good. She didn't stand me up or rip me off. she just (in my opinion) handled this badly and had (also my opinion) a 'too cool for school' attitude considering at the end of the day, she's having sex for money. This is not a bad thing and I don't mind paying for it but let's face it, you're not curing cancer.

 She has a lot of clients that love her. Do you really want me to 'out' a girl that maybe the only time this happened was with me? Not enough to out her with! Once again, she didn't rip me off or stand me up. She wasted my time and apparently never thought twice about it.
Annoying, but not enough to 'out' her!

 Was just relating a day and wondered if anyone else had been frustrated by this with ANY provider. Don't waste your time responding if the only thing you want is her name. that's not the point and I don't work that way.

I'm not a white night but I'm certainly no headhunter.

Sir Cumalot

Sherie, they can't all be like you. U live
and learn...wasn't the end of the world,
just frustrating.
You would agree that it was her loss,
right?! Lol...yeah right haha!

My memory of u is complete sensuality
and a very wet ending provided by
Sir Cumalot! Can't wait to see u again!

Sir Cumalot

My suspicion is she's just not that interested in new clients, so she's not going out of her way to be accommodating.    No phone number on the web page, slightly higher price, lots of reviews, plus her rather short replies, all seem to indicate an attitude that isn't very welcoming.

I'd guess that most of the gals get a lot of inquiries that don't lead to anything, but if they can't take the time to provide something warm and friendly in an initial contact, I figure the attitude isn't going to improve so why bother.

One of the biggest advantages of TER's discussion board is that the gals who take the time to post ads here are usually interested in new clients, and generally have a  more open, sociable attitude.

In some respects the 10 pages of reviews are irrelevant.  Kind of like the investment disclaimer -- past performance is no guarantee of future results.  I understand and can emphathize with your frustration but as a potential client it is behavior which would prevent me from seeing this lady.  

Frankly I can excuse a bad performance because of a variety of reasons (don't hit it off, no one is perfect all the time etc.) but wasting time is a non-starter in my book.  So there is a part of me which says disclose the name and if she has a good reason for what happened she can come to the board and defend herself.

On the other hand there are always two sides to every story so I also understand your position of non-disclosure.  Hopefully she reads the board and you receive a private apology.  If you do share it, as I for one will be skeptical of seeing anyone new who fits the general profile you provided.