I'm single but there is one provider I see a few times a year. We make out for an hour of on the clock fun but then she expects me to spend an extra 3-4 hours with her off the clock hanging out and talking about her life, we also stroll arm in arm around her neighborhood while walking her dogs! They are just some gals you connect with and others you don't!

of course in fantasy land there are still providers who reach out to specific gentlemen to try to catch a sugar daddy or 2 for monthly retainers in return for ongoing ..............................................................

I'm not real sure what the writer is trying to achieve by this posting.  It sounds to me like she is having an issue with a particular "client" that should be dealt with on an individual basis.  I don't know who she is or what is the source of this verbal jab, and my apologies to what may otherwise be a warm and pleasant provider, but she comes off sounding nasty and bitter.  Although I won't do it, I could easily turn this argument around to make jabs at providers, but I won't use such a broad brush to disparage those lovely women who don't deserve it.  In short, if you have a particular problem, be adult and professional enough to deal with it without spouting off like this; it just makes you look bad.  If you would like to message me and talk privately, I would love to meet you and talk.

I'm not exactly sure what you mean by "expecting freebies," but I assume you mean a client wants to spend time with you off-the-clock.

If a provider asks a client to stay over his alloted time because they are having a nice conversation or otherwise having a good time, is the guy asking for a "freebie" or is he simply responding to her invitation to stay over?  What if she starts giving him a BBBJ after his time is up -- is he expected to pay for an extra thirty-minutes?

If a guy has dinner with a provider because she suggested grabbing something to eat before a session, is he asking for a "freebie" if he doesn't pay her for the time at the restaurant?

In both cases, of course not.  But if he stays over his time during his next session because you're having a nice conversation, initiates an extra round at the end of the hour, or he suggests dinner before a session -- is he crossing the line then?  It's a tricky situation -- where do you cross the line between "being friends" and "getting freebies."  And when does the occassional extra become the expected norm.

My guess is that most women can handle these situations quite easily.  I assume you give some slack to regulars, good tippers, or guys you really enjoy being with.  But if he starts expecting too much, just tell the guy (in a nice way) that it's time to go or you can't meet him for dinner or whatever.  He'll get the message.  Is it really that hard?

you just got up and decided piss people off?

You sure as shit can't run into somebody you knew 15 years ago in a different world and let her stay at your house for a couple of a weeks and chill on the lake because if she uses your WIFI then you're linked by an IP so you must be her pimp !

Sorry Bro

It doesn't work for everybody but it happens!

geez "Bro" haven't you ever spent OTC time with a provider that likes you,  and why the fuck would he "make something up" that he couldn't take credit for because no one knows who he is?

You need to get over your phobia about aliases.

In the end, we humans do not act rational. We end up doing things against our own "rules". I have been around this "scene" for many years and I have seen providers and client's form non-professional relationships several times. Sometimes it works out badly, and rarely, but a few times, it has worked out to be a long term relationship.

I would say that clearly whoever this client is, it is not a mutual thing. If you are not cool with it and is not your thing, just tell them. Sweeping generalities rarely work. We can all decide there are rules but I am saying that all rules will be broken when the mood strikes us.

have any kind of relationship out side the door of your place if you
do not want.  This is an intimate business where lots of nerve endings are
artfully stimulated.

but shit happens two peeps like each other then one or the other
gets sick of looking at the other...just like for real.

lol

Just my gut reaction in this case ....

A parody of championing non "alias" handles and having balls b/c of it.

You do know dogs have to take shits right?  How would it be bragging about walking with a provider and her dog and why wouldnt you believe it?  I swear how the fuck do some of you guys make it from day to day?