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I've had a couple who began to get quite attached, and  called me alot  expecting me to drop whatever I was doing to be with them.They seemed to get a bit miffed if they knew I had another appointment, or if I had something personal planned and wouldn't break my plans for them. They wanted me to be "exclusively theirs" when they wanted. I simply told them, I don't mind being here for you, but I have a private life to. Whats going on with you?

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If it is who I think (judging by your response to him on a thread below).  You should not accept gifts from him.  You should not call him all the time.  You should not tell him you love him.  Don't call him to bail you out of jail or have your kids call him.  Give him back the credit card he helped you get. When he stops calling you and helping you (he has before) then don't call him back cause you miss him.

You two (call him Mr. M) go back and forth and your not consistent in telling him NO so he is getting mixed messages all the time from you.  Say NO, mean it and then don't call him and instant message him anymore.

Hope it works.  Debbie aka Raven

PS...Mr. M.  Don't call her, help her or allow yourself to be used again.....Didn't we have this talk a few months ago?

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Yeah,

If you want a relationhip you shouldn't have to pay.  Boundries can get blurred in the mystery, but nonetheless...be careful.

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Sorry to see you in this situation. Unfortunatly you don't appear to be in a position where you can call the authorities but it sounds like that is what it may take. One small bit of advice not meant to be offensive; you may not what to continue posting his messages as it may piss him off and send him over the edge and secondly you run the risk of scaring off your customer base that read this board.

Sorry to see you in this situation. Unfortunatly you don't appear to be in a position where you can call the authorities but it sounds like that is what it may take. One small bit of advice not meant to be offensive; you may not what to continue posting his messages as it may piss him off and send him over the edge and secondly you run the risk of scaring off your customer base that read this board.

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Hndycan,

GFE = Girl Friend Experience.  She is NOT your girlfriend.  Deana offers a girlfriend experience.  It is a fantasy.

Repeat after me.  It is a fantasy.  It is not real.  Deana is not my girlfriend.

Your chances of seeing Deana again are nil.  When a woman has to post on a message board asking you to "please leave me alone!!!", IT'S OVER.  Leave her alone, move on, and get over it.  She did not mislead you.  You misled yourself.  It is a fantasy, and that's all it ever was, a fantasy.  The first time you forgot that should have been the last time you ever saw her.
Any feelings you have for her are misguided.  They may be very real, but they are misguided.  If you really care about Deana, you will respect her enough to leave her alone.

Talk to someone.  A therapist, a minister, or a friend.  Talk to someone you trust.  Confide in them and accept their help in getting over this.  Let go of the hurt and anger.  Your time with Deana is at an end.  Let her go.  Talk to someone.  

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Now she is asking you to leave her alone.  This link tells me everything I need to know about your situation.  

That's all I have to say on the subject.

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OMG!!! TOO FUNNY!!!(ROFLMAO)

I was thinking the same thing myself.. thanks for the kind words..from you and everyone.. hugs and kisses deanna

Yeah...she did the same with me...told me she loved me...lol...played me to the tee...I fell for it...after all the smoke has cleared...about 0.0001% of what she said to me was true...I am sooo stupid...

You my dear are badly mistaken.. I never ment for things to turn out like they did and if I could do anything to change the way you feel I would.. You have no idea what this guy is putting me through.. and I have told him months and months ago that I now have a boyfriend that I am in Love with..

I know I will never find anyone like you .. but I am doing the best that I can.. Dont hate me because you dont want to talk to me and get a better understanding of things. please.. deanna

Only because you ask for it ,  all I wanted to do is hold you and take care of you but  well the story is the same  I'm so stupid she told me the same