I was wondering how hobbyist & providers feel about those providers that NEED or WANT to provide.  I know a strange question, but I have a regret come over me when I see a provider that it seems NEEDS to be a provider.  Of course we all need to make a living.  BUT, I have seen a few providers that seem to WANT to be in their line of work.  You know, as if they have chosen this profession over another because they PREFER this profession.  Am I being clear?  When a provider is in this profession because she feels she can't do anything else & reluctantly takes up the job of provider - should we as hobbyists support such a lady?  I don't know - it's just an uneasy feeling I have when I sense a provider has no other avenue than to pursue this profession.  Damn! Am I being too soft on all this?

I for one wish i could win the lottery so I would not charge anyone anymore.. I need to be a provider because I need the thrill and excitement but most of all I NEED the sex!!! I love what I do I was working 2 jobs 90 hours a week when I started doing this and I would go back to them if I didnt enjoy it ..
I believe that you guys can tell and the performance part of the reviews tells it all to me .
you are not being soft moonman as I remember lol.. mmmmmmm

Thanks, D. - you were exactly one of the ones I was thinking about regarding "WANT" to.  You convinced me.  WOW!

I think its a little of both for most ladies.The real question is 'is she doing it even though it's making her life miserable;emotionally that is'.That's when it get's pretty sad.

I believe a person who takes this on needs to have a certain type of personality.The three main personality requirements are:

1.Enjoys the Hospitality business 2.Enjoys meeting new people/likes;no loves variety & 3.The most important;enjoys 'intimacy' with the opposite sex

If the lady hates strangers,prefers routine & is really a one woman man but takes this job on anyway she's obviously gonna be miserable because she is doing the opposite of what is natually comfortable for her personality & possibly her beliefs.Must leave an icky feeling inside,dontcha think?

I think-hope the woman that enjoy this biz are still articulate enough to want to progress in other ways as well.Like she said,it does show in the behavior & attitude of the lady when you meet her.
Someone who is standoffish may not mean she dosent like her job just that she may not be well equipped & flexible enough to feel comfortable with it most of the time.
Or she may really feel icky inside.Everyone's an individual.What's good for the goose ain't always good for the gander & vice versa.You get the point.

Agree with sweetc1 on many points except one. I think if you feel icky inside  ridden with guilt, steeped in puritanical values and feels sex is sin, I am pretty sure this will destroy the person sooner or later.

My advise would be to stay away.  Sex is only fun and recreational for me. The basic condition for making it fun and recreational is to get rid of the baggage we all have grown up with. It seems, our socitey views sex as something wrong while many other socieites view it as basic human behavior don't seem to give too much importance.

By the way are there a Nympho out there, I would love to get together with provider who really like to have sex

Just my 02c

Yeah...I don't want ANY part of someone who feels FORCED, by whatever means, to be there.  Just not my thang.

by my sex drive lolol.. anyone ever had to go see a shrink about this kinda problem.. im really beginning to think i am addicted .. what is a girl to do

I'll be happy to help out with your addiction anytime you need a "fix".

wow. me too! you ever get enough?
personally I am still after the one that can give it to me...

Met your sexual match.. found that one someone that can do what you need done like you need it as much as you need it when you need it and how ... ?? what do you do when you find such a match ... hummm