I've been a around for a while but there are a few things that I have observed that the ladies can do that may make the business a little better for all involved. This is only my opinion and observations:

Contact Information - If a lady lists that she perfers the initial contact be via e-mail, Ladies should list how far in advance a guy should fill out the form for the appointment. Many of you ladies do not have time to check your e-mail regularly and if verification is needed, that could take a few hours or a day. But while that is going on, why not e-mail the guy back to let him know you got his information so he knows that you are checking it out and he doesn't move on to another lady. Also make sure you do check you e-mail or make sure your forms work. There are a few ladies who have appointment forms and the things don't work.

If a lady has a phone number, please inidcate if you will or will not return messages. Again many times a lady will ask for a few hours notice, but if you call and leave a message, you hardly ever get a call back. Partly due to the volume of calls a lady gets, she would be on the phone all day instead of making appointments. If you can not call back, indicate so and I wont leave a message but if I am truly interested, I will continue to call back until I get you on the phone. There are some ladies who have phone service and their voice mail boxes are full? To me that is bad business.

Bottom line, don't complain about business being slow if the clients can't contact you.

Phone Style - I can't ell you how many ladies have sealed the deal by just being nice on the phone. You don't have to over sell or give phone sex, but I have also had experiences where the lady had an attitude like I was bothering her by just calling. Customer service starts with a good attitude. Some people I can get a good vibe from by just talking to them on the phone and to me that is a major plus for setting the tone on both parties.

Be Professional About the Time - For the ladies the golden rule is "time is money". Well for some clients this is the case as well. Many guys are scheduling sessions to fit within their daily routine. If a lady is going to be late, a phone call to indicate so would be common courtesy at the very least.

Take Time Off - I can't believe I'm saying this but I have experienced it. If it is that time of the month, PLEASE don't work. Trust me the money and clients will still be there.

Advertising - If you only offer massage sessions, please do not advertise in escort sections. We are all big boys and girls and we know the difference in expectation between a massage session and escort. There are a few ladies who will advertise as escorts knowing full well that FS is not on the menu and then have the nerve to get pissed when you ask for it.

Be True To Your Time - If a guy pays for an hour, please provide an hour of service. Now how you and the gentleman choose to spend that time is up to you, but a situation can turn very bad if after 20 minutes the lady is moving toward the door.

Scheduling - Please try not to overbook and schedule too close together. Just like it is a major issue for you ladies that the guys be clean, the same holds true for us. Take the time between sessions to freshen up and recharge the batteries.

Pictures - I know this is going to be a touchy one but try not to use the glamour shots in your ads unless you intend to look that way for the session. It is a real let down when the picture looks like a 10 but you show up for the session looking like you just rolled out of bed. I feel that picture ads should reflect what the lady is going to look like for the session. Now I know most of the ladies get their bookings based on how they look so they want to present the best picture possible. Call me crazy but I focus more on the ad and presentation and the vibe it gives off more. Which brings me to my next point....

Website - Your website to me is a direct reflection of your service. A web domain is fairly cheap so no lady should be using the free web services with the 1001 pop-ups everytime you switch pages, or have the photo page on MSN which locks out after so many visitors. That is very tacky and show a lack of investing in oneself and her  business. It sort of tells me what kind of session to expect.

Screening - The new trend seems to be "who have you seen". What if you are new to the hobby or an area. To me, to risk my safety and security based on me picking another provider's name out of the blue is risky at best. What if the session with that lady was okay but the guy still is a nut case? Are you going to be pissed at the other provider? Also be discrete with the screening information. Call me silly but after the session is over there is no need for that information to be maintained. Paper trails are bad for both provider and client, yet you would be surprised how many ladies keep, pass on or are just careless with personal info.

Cat Fights - There is enough money and clients to go around. There is no need to attack or put another provider down. Board wars make both ladies look bad. Also don't sell out for a good review or free advertising. That is so BS.

Just my two cents but my next post is equal time about the guys.

-- Modified on 8/22/2004 9:13:02 PM