I know this is rather delicate and I'm not sure if I should even post it but here goes.

We hear a lot, and rightly so, about hobbyists who don't shower before seeing their provider or who aren't generally clean.  A pox on thier house as that is the ultimate disrespects.

However, during the last couple months I've seen some providers who aren't quite as "fresh" as one would like.  Sometimes the scent wafts up and isn't pleasant.  I've also gotten unpleasant scent on my hands and frankly, it's a turn off.  Now don't get me wrong, I love the smell of a good clean woman, it's that I get the feeling that they've seen too many clients and haven't cleaned up or that they maybe have a little yeast going on or something else.

I'm in a quandary to speak up or not.  A beautiful woman who is smart, attentive and loving can have the entire experience ruined if she has bad smell "down there".

Again, I apoligise for the indelicate subject, but am asking two things:

1.  Should a gentleman speak up?  If so, how would one go about raising such an issue?

2.  Should it be noted in the review?

I'd like to hear from both hobbyists and providers.

Thanks,

NookieMonster

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I saw her rather well known provider a while back who's menu includes pretty much everything. While I'm really not into the greek thing, apparently she'd seen someone before I'd gotten there and had not cleaned herself sufficiently. Hate to be gross, but when we going at it doggie style, there was an unpleasant odor that made me go limp. The guys seem to get ripped here quite a bit on odor issues and that's not the first time something like that's happened to me. One of my ATF's would occasionally get rather "ripe."
No excuse for a client or provider to be at their "cleanest" for an appointment!

I think it should be posted in the reviews. What would the purpose of this site be if the reviews are not honest? That would be like you reading a review of someone that got all 10's on thier performance but when the truth is she just laid there.Maybe by posting it she will change the way she takes care of herself and have better hygiene techniques. I would hope that all providers that offer DATY would make sure they were fresh before seeing someone.
  Now as far as telling her about the problem, that is where it becomes hard. You probably don't want to hurt her feelings or ruin the rest of your session by bringing it up. Maybe take along some of you favorite eatible creams. When you get there ask her if she would join you in the shower and try to help freshen her up that way.While in shower let her know everybody loves to DATY a fresh kitty. The way I see it we all would like the GFE and if she was your girlfriend you would let her know, wouldn't you?

DG.... I think and hope you mean that there is no reason for a provider NOT to be at their cleanest for an appointment!!!

-- Modified on 4/17/2007 12:57:17 AM

Interesting post. I think you have every right to speak up just as the provider does.
Personally I have to say, a woman KNOWS when she isn't "fresh". It's the truth and if a woman says she has know idea...then she's ignorant or lying and funky too. LOL! A simple squatting down with your legs open and sniffing the air is all it takes. If you can't do squats then a swipe of the finger and a sniff will work too. Same with you guys. Run a finger under those balls then sniff...if it makes you gag....get your butt in the shower before your appointment! I take my personal grooming seriously(just as my mother taught me) because I know how turned off I am when an unpleasant funk smacks me in the face. I also keep my gentlemen callers to a minimum. I also like the process of getting ready for my hot date. Bathing is a big part of that ritual for me(that's why Im almost always a tad off schedule) (blush). I also offer a steamy shower/bath session...not only is it a sexy wet time...we get so fresh and so clean too! Just my honest opinon but what do I know. Sincerely~Dominique~

I've had only two "fishy" experiences, and they were both late at nite, and I would guess that your hypothesis is correct. I try to get an early-bird appointment, however it's not always possible. The two bad experiences that I had were both late-nite!
I believe that once you get to know a provider and you click with her, she'll make sure that you are not going to have a bad experience.
I think that this is a subject that providers should take note.

O2

-- Modified on 4/30/2007 2:36:20 AM

Hey i try to smell my own koochie even before I let the friend in.. so if something is going on down there that i dont know about them I would say that I would want to know .. seems to me like we could smell ourselves if we were a stankin... just what i think about the topic.. hugs and kisses and .. lets all wash these thangs..
lol..
deanna

If a provider sees as many as they can, or when advertise as call me 1 hr or 45 minutes before, then you can pretty much guess.

Personally I prefer the providers who take apts for time slots. When a provider sees as many they can in a day, other area's also suffers. When that is the case, it all depends where land on the particular day.

A simple matter of quality vs quantity- I think.

I'm sitting here eating my lunch and thinking about this whole issue.  I also happen to know of someone I would call a high volume provider and in the time I've known her, she's always been sweet and clean. I've been with her in the biblical sense after a day or working and she's always been perfect.

One of the things not mentioned here is diet and lifestlye. If you tent to eat certain foods such as asparagus or drink coffee, it will make you taste "bitter". If you drink a glass of juice every morning, you will be more sweet. Alchohol and smoking influences what comes out of your skin so be mindful of that.. One of the biggest helpers to maintain a healthy fragrance is regular excercise and drinking water. Our bodies need to naturally expel of our toxins and both of those do wonders for us on several levels.

As far as posting or putting it in the reviews, obviously that is up to the person who has experienced it. I think that you'll find most of us, girls and guys, read posts like these and will step up if we've slacked a bit in this category.



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