It's something I don't get at home. I have seen a couple of providers that will do that. I wind up worrying myself crazy afterwards, but damn it feels good .

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~WOW...  your information "SEEMS" impressive but I believe it maybe a bit outdated.
** Gram positive OR Gram negative bacteria in your saliva from previous encounters ?????  OMG GET REAL... Totally unlikely that the levels of Gram negative or Gram positive could be kept at levels high enough to endanger your health. ** .Likewise so many over-the-counter sold HBA products can greatly decrease any bacteria levels with one swish and one gargle

As far as your description of prostatis, 1 in 3 chance it could become chronic? I don't think in the world we live in we really need to start instilling widespread panic about something that is such a far reaching statistic. *You actually probably have a better chance of being terrorized by the extremists living within our society, lets not start stooping to stats and numbers... all surveys (as any educated person can bear witness, can always be manipulated)

Much of your information... which may or may not have foundation reads much like a headline just before New Years Eve 2000. The poll stated that "Pilots in Fear of flying New Years EVE" it further read that of the pilots surveyed 30 something percent said they would not be flying New Years Eve but would be staying at home. So as I stated all stats can be munipulated...  The story in fact could have read "Per our Survey over 60% of the Pilots surveyed said they would be comforable in flying New Years Eve"

I think a better recommendation, I mean other than the DRAMATIC ...'GET a divorce and become some young thangs sugar daddy'  might be:  RESEARCH YOUR PROVIDERS AND SELECT ONE WITH LIKE CONCERNS. Again the thought of getting what you pay for comes to mind.

There is also far more reliable information available on a litle more reputable sites in regards to your health than this board.

AND...  for the record, I do offer BBBJ and I believe my actions are NOT risky behavior. There are precautions and additional "PERSONAL CARE" practises that also affect much of what can be transmitted and what can't. (~A fair knowledge of Micro-Biology and basic anatomy would eliminate some of the unfounded fears~). *Ignorance is the breeding ground of fear*

Play safe & be informed. Also get to know the providers in the Atlanta area. Using a fair sense of logic & reason would be far more recommended than GETTING A DIVORCE & BECOMING SOME YOUNG THANGS SUGAR DADDY.

However if you are still convinced after your investigation that being a sugar daddy is the only realistic way to get a BBBJ then please be sure to call me. Heavens knows between my school schedule & the time I am obligated to the healthcare industry I could use an exclusive relationship with a sugar daddy.    kisses  Candace

I feel better after reading your post. I have a hard time believing that kissing and BBBJ can be that risky. It's a risk I'm willing to take occassionally. I have no desire to divorce, she's a great woman, great mother...just dull in the bedroom. Maybe we can meet my next trip to Atlanta. I have to believe that such classy ladies as yourself have better sense than to do anything real risky.

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Paranoid will reamin paranoid and others will go on with their life.

~I also remained silent for about a year now on the same subject~ Having heard at least a few dozen times that the "ONLY" reason my reviews were so high was because I was risky. That is just not true. I think manipulation of the facts help some justify short comings. If safety and health is that much of a mystery, I know two of the local hospitals here have 'FREE' clinics that can give you all of the "supported medical facts" --AND I will stand by my statements: I never have nor ever will I practise Risky behavior --(*If you are with me you will never have to question yourself later on down the road*)If free clinics aren't your thing and the web hasn't helped, wait until Sept and I will be back in class full time, I can back channel you with class schedules @ Emory. I believe they are respected in the medical field so that might put an end once and for all to the widepread fear that has been so popular in the ATL area. .... consider the source and screen your provider much in the same way providers screen their clients. kisses Candace

You have done us all, that is, those who care, a service. You spoke with an air of professionalism that the boards needed. We know that washing one's hands frequently and thoroughly will help in the prevention of a lot of diseases caused by viruses as well as those caused by bacteria. Nothing will ever be 100%, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't practice good hygiene. It's providers such as you, who reduce the attendant risks of this business! Bless you sweetie. BTW, I loved the pics of you and K when you were in NYC. Why not consider touring to MB. You'd make a lot of us very happy.

Candace,
Again, you handle everything with CLASS........
You are one classy lady.  I like the pic's too!!!!  So SEXXY!!
Mj

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Ok is all that really necessary?? As I stated your facts are impressive but they seem "OUTDATED" ....   as far as your slanderous implications as to my education...  sweetie my medical is as recent as you can get. **I am due to graduate in 06/2005** as far as your web site links I think I could fill this board with links to the contrary. As far as your quotes from the 70's...  ok that is like..... 30 something years old. I feel comgortable in stating I think I had heard, or read everything you printed back when I was about 5 or so. Although BUMPER STICKERS aren't really where I look for words of wisdom to be quoting.
I will stand firm on my coments and my statements. KNOW the provider! I also know for a fact that many individuals in the Atlanta area capitalize on fear, thus justifying everything under the sun.... sorry if I stepped on the fear makers toes with a little knowledge and suggestion.
As well your implication that I am ..."Dumb Ass is to the bone" obviously that was made with as much insight as some of your other statements. A 3.65 GPA in the field I have chosen doesn't exactly indicate a "dumb ass to the bone" sweetie. ~AND... as if I would answer, to argue, and additional foolish statements made by you.
As far as the political statements: It is seriously doubtful you pay more taxes than most of the providers here. I believe for 2003 my rate was somewhere in the 20 something percent. Un-insured and Grady?????...   just exactly what providers are you in he habit of associating with???? The closest I would get to Grady sweetie would be Crawford Long and that is because it is an obligation with my studies. I also am not aware of any provider (that I know & associate with) who doesn't gross enough to afford the upmost in health care. If your provider has jaded your impression of the financial status of providers in the Atlanta area maybe we have gotten to the root of the problem,and where your impression of "provider safety" has originated.
It is my world by birth....  I make the most of it. And it may appear that I value my time & future as much, if not more than, anyone. I will leave it at we can agree to disagree.
And I did that without making any implications or references to your intelligence.
By the way if BBBJ aren't your thing you may want to stay away from the higher end swingers scene, I think you may be surprise to see a few of you Urologist and other healthcare providers enjoying BBBJ. IT IS NOT RISKY BEHAVIOR, provided you take the necessary personal hygenic steps and invest a little time before hand to aqaint yourself with the sexual partner. kisses Candace

If one belies everything seen and read on the web as facts is like saying everything you read in a news paper and hear on TV news is true.

The truth today, everyone has vested interest in pushing their agenda. When Dr. Koop was the Surgen General, he pushed many many stupid agenda's and when he retired, the internet was just strating up, Dr. Koop decided push his agenda using the internet.

There are many million $ part time, work from home jobs on the Internet, I wish they were true.

Taking information at face value can  be considered as another form of ingnorant blizz.

Maybe the best place for HIV/AIDS info is the "official" site.  http://www.aids.org.  That is where I got this:

Can I get HIV from oral sex?

There is considerable debate within the HIV/AIDS prevention community regarding the risk of transmission of HIV through oral sex. What is currently known is that there is some risk associated with performing oral sex without protection; (there have been a few documented cases of HIV transmission through oral sex). While no one knows exactly what that risk is, cumulative evidence indicates that the risk is less than that of unprotected anal or vaginal sex. The risk from receiving oral sex, for both a man and a woman, is considered to be very low.

Currently, risk reduction options when performing oral sex on a man (fellatio) include the use of latex condoms, but also include withdrawal before ejaculation without a condom (avoiding semen in the mouth) and/or refraining from this activity when cuts or sores are present in the mouth.

When performing oral sex on a woman (cunnilingus), moisture barriers such as a dam (sheet of latex), a cut-open and flattened condom, or household plastic wrap can reduce the risk of exposure to vaginal secretions and/or blood.

If you have other questions about oral sex and HIV, call the CDC National AIDS Hotline at 1-800-342-2437 (English), 1-800-344-7432 (Spanish), or 1-800-243-7889 (TTY).    (Source: Centers for Disease Control - CDC)

Can I get HIV from kissing?

Casual contact through closed-mouth or "social" kissing is not a risk for transmission of HIV. Because of the potential for contact with blood during "French" or open-mouth, wet kissing, CDC recommends against engaging in this activity with a person known to be infected. However, the risk of acquiring HIV during open-mouth kissing is believed to be very low. CDC has investigated only one case of HIV infection that may be attributed to contact with blood during open-mouth kissing. In this case both partners had extensive dental problems including gingivitis (inflammation of the gums). It is likely that there was blood present in both partners' mouths making direct blood to blood contact a possibility.    (Source: Centers for Disease Control - CDC)

Reenial & Dumb Ass..... ????

Candace,
Damn girl.  You are on the money again.  I love an educated lady!!!
I must make some time to see you.  Heck, the conversation alone would get me off!!!!  8^)  An educated lady is so SEXXXY!!!  WOW

MonsterJazz

~For all of my close friends~   ......I guess I should have stated this earlier: Back in October (when a certain provider in the Atlanta area decided to spread malicious gossip)I started making it a standard practise to keep an updated lab report with all of my lab results from STD testing available to all of my clients. Since it is always within the past 60 days it should help eliminate some anxiety. Since my career field requires most of it anyway, this just seemed to be the logic answer. When a dear friend was literally RAN out of this business because of a vicious provider who spread absolute LIES about her. I knew to establish a pattern would negate any undue problems later.
I am sorry, most of my comments and points made in this specific thread were directed at STD's that are more easily transmitted than HIV.
If I had even considered we were discussing the transmission of HIV through BBBJ I think I would have opted not to comment. Of course I am just that way, I didn't comment on the hysteria associated with "obtaining duct tape during the beginnings of Operation Iraqi Freedom" either. Some hysteria is just isn't worth wasting the time to comment on.  kisses  Candace