What are your thoughts on the following. Lets say a guy has an affair with a provider (The guy is married). And the provider quits the business (she was getting out prior to meeting the guy). And the affair continues over the years to the point where they are talking about divorce / marriage. Then along the way the lady pulls the plug on everything because she has trust issues with him because of the way they met (provider / client) and the fact that an true affair arose, yet the guy never questioned her back ground or held it against her. Then two weeks after they break up, he finds out that she is engaged to someone else, (which eventually fell apart as well). Did she or fate do the guy a favor? I'm trying to tell him she did but some guys can't think with their head when their heart is involved. Any thoughts?

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the same thing happend to me with a provider.but i am not married and she was involved with the same man for 3 years.she broke up with the guy and moved to florida.her and i still stay in contact email and phone.nothing more.

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she did the guy a favor,
she knew in advance that they would never be a couple.
for whatever reason,she may have done it because she liked him to much and that was the easiest way out.
marcb(i'm not a virgin and i never played one on t.v.)

The only favors it appeared that she did were for herself...It was selfish to lead him on like that, then say she had trust issues with him.  Come now; the only trust issues she had were the demons she was fighting within her own self.

If she was engaged already; then who was the one with the trust issues?  Obviously, this was an easy way out for her...or maybe hard, whatever; but she should have been honest with him as well...

Obviously, his heart was involved, and hers was never fully their...

But this is from 1 providers view...

Sofia Danila

All I'll say is I spoke to him and as predicited he is pissed at me but I feel that if I didn't tell him the truth I wouldn't be much of a friend. He'll hate me for know but soon he'll snap out of it.

I think we've all been there and lost our hearts to someone, and there is no pain worse than that which can come from a broken heart. But in the long run his kids still have their dad, and I told him if he put half as much attention to his wife as he did to his lady on the side, she may meet him half way and become the person he fell in love with.

Right now he's not even close to hearing that. I know he'll come around when he wants some of my extra Falcon tickets. LOL. Football and Beer is one of the ultimate male bonding experience LOL.

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Boy if this doesn't sound familiar!