Would someone please define GFE ? How does she differ from the ordinary provider ?

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In my book, GFE means the provider makes you feel like she would be enjoying herself just as much without the donation.  It's more about attitude than any specific services to me.  All of those services that people generally associate with GFE carry an added risk, some more than others.  Just because a provider decides that one activity or another is too much risk for her doesn't necessarily make her less of a GFE.

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Thanks Nat, that helps a lot.

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If you check out the Newbie board, the General Discussion board or any of the TER board for that matter, you'll find many threads discussing this topic. Many will give you a definition similar to the one above. However, many will give you a short check list of requirements, sometimes known as the St. Bart scale.

thirsty

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I agree with TripNatl.  To me, being a GFE Provider is way more of an attitude than anything else.  I try to treat each and every client like they're my bf... Granted, with some it's easier than with others.  There's only one service that IMHO has to be included in a GFE and that's DFK.  I don't know of any couple outside the hobby that doesn't enjoy kissing one another....

I am curious, however, as to why a lot of Providers don't offer DFK.  Throughout my career, I've heard exuses ranging from the typical Pretty Woman remark that it's "too personal" to it's a major health risk.  As far as it being too personal... well, IMHO, we're doing a lot more personal things with people that kissing... If you're worried about that, perhaps you're in the wrong line of work.  It never ceases to amaze me that most of the Providers who refuse to offer DFK on the basis that there are major health concerns offer bbbj's or even bbbjtc's.  According to the CDC, providing bbbjtc's is quite a bit riskier than exchanging a little saliva in DFK.  Sure, Providers and Hobbyists who partake in DFK are more susceptible to things like a cold or possibly the flu, but to my knowledge the risks of contracting STD's such as Herpes, HPV, and HIV is almost nil... Anyone care to shed some light on this???  I'd love to hear your thoughts!

Jaclyn

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To DFK with Jaclyn is better than a hot donut at Krispy Kreme...

  GFE=Great F___ing Experience.

Now this is the best description ever.  It's right on target.  It's different for everybody, but what ever makes it great for you is a GFE. By the way Ronda, you definitly are.

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GFE - as defined in Webster's Dictionary: Girlfriend Experience...see also - Michelle (Butterfly Massage).

and with Jaclyn it is a unique experience......

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dfk is a health risk ...your right in that saliva is a slight risk but unfortunately blood is a high risk and short of that monthly no where bleeds more than your mouth ..IE people bite their tongues and cheeks all the time ..When you eat certain foods you cut your gums like popcorn,chips,foods eaten by most people daily...when people brush their teeth or floss they bleed typically ...this is why dfk is a definite out for me..not all people have good mouth hygeine for me it is not a risk I am willing to take but then I do not bbj either...

Just my .o2

Does this imply one should not brush, floss, eat chips, popcorn, byte tongue, cheek, etc... before visitng provider or before DFK.

Interesting piece of information. Would it be great excuse for not doing DFK.

I have suggestion, we can come up with some schema for letting haoobysts know that a a provider doesnot engage in certian activitiies.

DFK, BBJ/BBJTC, DATY= 1 GFE
CBJ, no DFK, = 3/4 of GFE
CBJ, no DFK, No Daty= 1/2 GFE
no CBJ, No DFK, NO DATY, = go buy a plastic doll= don't wast your time and money

Oh by the way include this info on your wbsites. Helps in two ways, hobbysts who are interested in these won't bother to call and providers don't have tell hobbysts during the session. This will eliminate bad reviews by disappointed bhobbysts.

I am pretty much aware of the fact that providers get so many calls and don't have the time to answer all calls. As a side benefit, this schema will also reduce the number of calls allowing providers to respond on a timely fashion.

A Win Win situation for all.
Just my 02.

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Not so mysterious, just your average retired North Carolina Marine.

I love DFK among other things.... Thanks, guys, for the compliments!!!

Jaclyn