Has anyone used www.adultfriendfinder.com?  I signed up for a basic membership (free) and I get emails with thumbnail pictures of girls that are supposedly looking for "A HOT TIME", but I cannot access their 'additional' information without 'upgrading' my membership.  Just curious if someone can give me some 411 if these women are legit.

Thanks,
Aliados
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Waste of time. Tried it for a year and you get lot of solicitations for Webcams and your email becomes full with spam!

Well I can say the guys are legit...I also put an ad on there for my personal life and have received over 1200 messages, some of course u can weed out.........But who knows, most of it I find hiliarious

PICK ME...PLEASE

Save your money, it's a waste.  I upgraded to be able to contact the people there and never got a single reply.  I know, I know, that should tell me something, but it really is a rip off for men.  I even signed up as a couple when I was still married and only got replies from one or two couples looking for another woman for a three way.  A VIP membership for TER is a much better investment.

so I joined, too.  Odd thing is, that when I did searches on TN or SC, pages and pages of results comes up.  When I searched on GA, there were only 3.

Then, about 30 minutes after signing up, got an email from them with a dozen or more listings from Georgia.

Anyway - looks interesting.  I can't speak from personal experience, but I have chatted with a couple of guys that said they have found several, good, "under the radar" ladies using personals sites like this one, or others.

They'll load your inbox with soooooo much spam you'll need to change your address.

I did better thru Yahoo personals than AFF. 99% are fake and it aint worth the spam.It's mostly a come on for age check and pay porn sites. If you like yours with a pulse forget them.

Pretty interesting thread.  I just got a silver membership and put my pictures on there and all.  A few responses.  Even from some men.  I am pretty sure some of the women with their pictures aren't real.  Their screen names and pictures just happen to be nasty.  It seems like those girls are put on there to lure the men in.  My membership expires tommorrow.  What a waste.  Thought I'd give it a try though.  Won't do it again.

If that site was for real the providers wouldn't be able to survive.

I have had a few great guys I have met...However, I figure since I am doing this for only my personal enjoyment I am particuliar in who I meet.  I won't meet men who dont have a picture, who are only looking for sex....I want sex but also want a guy friend also....who has a job...who is intelligent...witty...sense of humor....doesn't need Viagra....flexible schedule....nice looking....30s-40s in age.

My pics are real and I go by ....asexygirlfriend on AFF

so if you have a pic and fit the above ....would love to hear from you....yep some of the girls and guys and couples are fake and looking to get you to do cam shots for websites...I am not!

Raven

I tried AFF a couple of years ago and struck out completely.  I got a Gold membership, if I remember correctly.  I contacted a couple of women, but nothing ever came of the contacts.  We never saw each other.

A while back there was a thread about the bars/pick-up joints that one could go to to meet willing, horny women.  I think our chances would be MUCHO better at these places than going through AFF.

Could someone start another thread about local Atlanta hang-outs where horny men and women hang out to pick up and get picked up?  I think that would be a service to those folks who are considering AFF.  AFF is a waste of money and precious time IMO.

Thanks!

I'm wondering how you managed to meet women through Yahoo.  The site seems mostly geared toward people looking for long term relationships.  There's no box to check for "casual encounters" or "no strings sex."  How did you figure out who to contact?  Thanks.

To me AFF is easier then going to a bar.  I can go thru profiles on AFF and answer mail that I want. I like men, thirty something, attractive, intelligent, who enjoys sex, conversation, occasional dinners, no strings. I think bars are noisey, smokey and drunk men are no turn on for me.

On AFF many of the women are real but most are looking for relationships....not quickies from married,overwieght men who just want sex (there are some of them on AFF).  And there are women on there who are scams (I've heard) cause they will direct men to paysites when they try to contact them.  You just have to be careful.

Bars..Sure you can meet people there....What type of music do you like and what is your age?  What area of town are you looking to find a place?  There is a bar/club for everyone.

Raven

... the grocery store!  Believe it or not, I read that that is one of the best places for single men and women to meet.  It reminds me of the movie "Animal House", when Mrs. Wormer ran into one of the Delta guys in the vegetable section ("mine's bigger" ha ha).

"married,overwieght men who just want sex (there are some of them on AFF)"

Hey, I resemble that remark!  Guess I need to go and delete my new AFF profile.  LOL

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This is a RIP-OFF.... DO NOT WASTE YOUR MONEY !!
Also NOTE:: make sure, if you want to cancel, that you check off the box about recurring charges.

I am not "only looking for sex", but I am "mostly looking for sex" - do I still qualify?

Aliados

I don't qualify for you though.  I am in my thirties not twenties.