How many of you ladies out there are members of AFF (Adultfriendfinder.com)? Is it just me , or is there an unusually high number of ladies 'advertising' there? Most of the profiles seem too good to be true, so if something sounds too good to be true....you know the cliche.....It would help if a few ladies shed some light on this topic for me. Thanks.

I do but there seems to be a lack of quality gentlemen.

LMAO!!!!.....What's the difference if your just posting an 'ad' for services; that defeats the purpose of locating a client doesn't it?

I think the men that go to AFF are looking for more of a steady relationship. So finding a "quality gentleman" on that site may be difficult when they find out there will be fees or donations involved.

I was a member quite a few years back and I found that the majority of profiles were fake. Now, I still receive spam from all of the offshoots.

AFF is such baloney. It's filled with desperate slobs and vicious criminals. Take it from someone who found out the hard way. And like you said the spam will follow you for the rest of your email life.

Whoah.

(long time reader, first time poster here)

AFF is like any other web based "people meet people" service.  You have GOT to be careful, protect yourself, and filter out the lunatics.

Yes, a lot of the profiles are garbage, and there are a lot of sick puppies, but that's true here too...except "we" have a moderator.  AFF is a for-profit outfit, they moderate as little as possible to make more more profit possible.

It takes a lot of weeding thru the rubbish, but I have met some EXTREMELY good folks thru AFF.  And yes, even an extraordinay (and sadly, now retired) provider.

Not trying to plug anybody here, but caveat emptor and YMMV there just as well as here.

AFF is a waste of time and money. Most of the ads are bait for pay porn/chat sites. You will find provider's ads there. They use words like generous, beneficial, and such.

Tried it for  6 months all you get is pronographic SPAM. IMHO, AFF is a complete fraud. Ended up cancelling Yahoo email account to get rid of the Prono SPAM!

Just my 02c

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