I know, BP is full of unreliable, mediocre providers…But sometimes when you don't have time for an appointment and need on the fly, it can scratch an itch…
I've been burned twice now by the same provider within a 2 week period (basically stood-up).
I will not mention her name, but it's one of the Brazilian providers on BP.
Called her up two weeks ago, agreed on the time…Two call deal…But when I called to get final instructions, no answer….Hmmmm…Ok, tried 5 minutes later….Nothing….Tried another 5 minutes later….nothing….After 20 minutes, I could not wait anymore and drove back home (a 45 minute drive mind you!)….
Tonight, got the itch…Decided to try her out again…She answered, all pleasant…Again agreed on time, and to follow 2 call system….
I get up there, the same BS happened again! WTF????
I saw her once before (actually made it that time!), so I know she is legit….But she is a total ditz, or has no respect for people's time…
No more!
EROS only here on out….
I had a girl on bp that I called, and couldn't set up a time. No big deal but she kept calling and texting me for about a week. Crazy.
Although i like EROS it still doesn't ensure you won't encounter a flake... your best bet is to stick with well reviewed gals! And sometimes they'll leave you baffled.
Always have a option A, B or C and if all else fails beat your **** like it owes you money, at least you'll feel better.
Sucks she got you twice though
Don't blame BP.
Don't blame her.
If you want to find something to blame....look in the closest mirror.
Apparently you've never heard the phrase "fool me once...shame on you. Fool me twice...shame on me".
Your post is probably one of the best examples of thinking with the little head and leaving the big head totally out of the picture.
For an "itch" you drive 45 minutes one way to see someone who has already wasted your time? 45 minutes?!?
Here's what you need to do.
Go to Walmart and buy some hand creme. $1.98
Get a decorative glass jar. $3.88
Next time you get an "itch"...go in the bathroom...rub one out...and toss $200 into the glass jar.
Do this every time.
Now....just think of all the time and gas you'll save from driving.....plus the added benefit of not having something embarrassing to post about.
It's a win-win.
Just sayin'
DD
I got burned twice early on just going to BP with no homework. No one with experience who uses common sense would have made those two mistakes. There were additional signs when I got to the two situations I would recognize now in a nanosecond that should have turned me around. It's not that complicated:
If you get some special adrenaline rush/thrill/euphoria or you supply the synonym from playing "TOFTT Roulette" with very long odds, then by all means just rush blindly onto BP and often you're going to blow money and time, and essentially get burned. Not because someone is simply using BP as economical advertising, but because you didn't have reviews or any information to verify you'd have a good/great experience.
If on the other hand, you take a little time to check TER reviews and go for consistently good repeat reviews (sure some fake reviews make it onto TER, and a lot of time they're obvious and/or there is only one review--it's not perfect but it is awfully helpful the vast majority of the time) and click the reviewer's name and see who else he has reviewed--that increases your odds of a good or great experience. When there is some "url" link instead of a pic with the TER profile, search Google or Bing with the phone number and provider name (not perfect but very helpful--you don't usually even need Tineye or Google Images or Bing images to get pics when TER's profile doesn't provide them); reliable reviewers will tell you if the pics are accurate, and in some cases the provider looks considerably better than good pics.
All of this has been said in detail and written better perhaps by a lot of people on the Newbie Forum, and reading several pages of the Newbie Forum to remind yourself of good habits can be helpful as well
This is nothing more then whining post and you are blaming BP? I can't fault you for using BP. I have had some good success in the past with BP, but I also learn from my mistakes.
So, who is the provider?
I don't want to be the girl who defends wrong doing but maybe something happened. Also you said you have seen her once but twice after she hasn't seen you? maybe you rubbed her the wrong way. Maybe her menstrual came on, death in the family, kid got sick, or you smell funny.
I'm not being rude but I noticed with some of my guy friends. When they call me they automatically expect me to be in my hotel room. so they hurry over or say they will be there at 11 and come at 10:22. it could be alot of reasons why she has done the things she has done but my advice is to call someone else.
Her mother is sick, the dog came down with the flu, the cat fell off the roof, she lost her cell phone, her car broke down, she lost her favorite glasses, she overslept.
How about reality. She's a flake.
You should read his post before answering.
I read the post. I'm just saying that there is sometimes more
the story then what some people let on.You don't have to be rude.
Reality is things happen maybe he should ask her way she doesn't want to see
Him.
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Posted By: Panthera12
Her mother is sick, the dog came down with the flu, the cat fell off the roof, she lost her cell phone, her car broke down, she lost her favorite glasses, she overslept.
How about reality. She's a flake.
You should read his post before answering.
Yes, I know everyone, fool me twice, shame on me…I was merely pointing out how BP is completely unreliable and not worth it…As far as her name, reviews are where that stuff belongs…I will post a review saying two times no show….But I don't think that's appropriate on the discussion board…However if you are curious, you can figure it out…Atlanta hardly has any Brazilian girls left, let alone ones that post on BP…
Any ways, I am done with the rant…Have a good weekend...
There was no meeting and nothing to review. This board is the proper place to post "that stuff", but never mind.
and he certainly put enough info to do damage.C'mon you been in this "thing" long enough to know the reality.Your an important fella and your times valuable yada yada...,so it's your belief she did not handle her business the right way.
But here's the other side ..you could be 350+lb whale that smells like a sewer ,who is rude(this post not doing anything to dissuade that notion)demanding services she is not "comfy" with.etc...
These posts I expect out of a newbie or some board ASSHAT .You did not get arrested or suffer the consequences of being with a sub par provider or got less than you paid for.
But because she advertises on BP as a lot of ladies here do & HAVE (,tho they deny it now) and quite a few of your reviews are from ladies that have advertised on BP. Hey she has reviews you gonna blame ter ?
Now what I hope happens is that tomorrow you read your "rant" and realize your "error" and do the honorable thing.
But too often on here it seems like a bunch high school ego maniacs taking everyone's inventory and putting others down to make them feel better about themselves.
So sir , which are you?I await your decision.
you need to reply to the OP? You don't reply to the OP under another person's answer.
Your last paragraph is funny as hell. You do know that everyone puts you at the top of that list don't you?
