Ever feel you've had a session with a lady that goes better than perfect, then when you want to repeat, she doesn't return calls or emails?  I've been trying to reach her for 4 days and nothing. Not even a fuck you, just silence.

I really thought we'd established a connection, or as she likes to say a mind blowing time. I'm feeling somewhat depressed right now, and this is a first in all my hobby years. Am I alone, or just stupid?

aww im sure shell get bac with u at her erliest convience dnt give up

But usually it's just coordination and correspondence delays on her part

Keep fishing big guy, doubt you read her that wrong

I have been around this biz for a while (but a bit of a 'lurker' on the boards).
Escorts can be very flaky at times.
Don't take it personally, wait a few days, and try again.
The worst thing you can do is leave 10 messages and emails daily.

She could be on vacation. I am pretty quick to respond but when I go on vacation that is the one time I try to get away from the internet and email.

Keep your chin up. If you do not here back from her ever, it might be time to look at yourself and consider if there could possibly be something to address.Or........just move on,sometimes people just do not click.

This girl must really know how to move her hips or her head game is priceless. I want to meet this lady that has guys looking for her in the day time with a flash light.

And she answered my follow up......yea me.

Keep your chin up, I'm sure she sees you trying.

-- Modified on 4/12/2011 4:50:30 PM

She's an incredible love maker. It's different though. I can't put my finger on it. I've seen many ladies over the years but this one's different.  I'm not saying she's better, she's just exilirating.  She's bold, witty, beautiful, naughty and nothing like ive imagined.  I think I'm in trouble. She's mesmerized and captivated me in a way that makes my stomach sick that I haven't heard back from her. I feel anxious I may never see her again.  I think I may need to take break for a while. I expressed my feelings to her in writing and she told me she was uncomfortable going there. Maybe I really messed up by being honest how I feel.  I wonder if she has a steady man, a real one I mean. Not someone she pretends to enjoy out of a paid arrangement.  I thought for a minute I could be that person. Of course of I weren't already married. I realize this sounds weird, but it's really messing with my head. Thanks for your input.
So sorry for getting my nose out of joint today, this just sucks.

" I think I'm in trouble."

"She's mesmerized and captivated me in a way that makes my stomach sick that I haven't heard back from her. I feel anxious I may never see her again.  I think I may need to take break for a while. I expressed my feelings to her in writing and "

"she told me she was uncomfortable going there"


Let that be. Sorry, Its a strange world full of emotion, sensuality and dissapointments in this game we play.. Hope you heal quick and get back in the saddle!

tyvm,P.T.

She told you she wasnt comfortable going there..and by your own admission are continuing to try and contact her...You will probably never hear from her again. No offense...but if I were that girl..I wouldnt write you back either. She's protecting you BOTH...

We are providers..not a dating service...no strings attached GFE service...
Not that FRIENDSHIP'S can not be made...

Good luck but my advice..leave it alone!

that you need to let go but you can't because you're still waiting for the impossible to happen. #NotOk #SinceWeBeingHonest #LazyandInconsiderate #TwoWeeksWorthofGroceries

--------posted from Twitter-------------

I am assuming this is a regular atf not someone you just met.
Relationships happen all the time anywhere and everywhere and
sometimes when least expected  Maybe she couldnt handle what she
felt for you and something had to give.

sucks for you, but really what were you gonna do with her after the mind blowing sex???
listen to her bullshit?  Its like the dog chasing the car.

Just get out there get your freak on and find a new one.

since I think I know who you are I'll say I hope to see you soon #CantWait #HardAlready #MissYouMuch

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I used to get completely bummed out if I didn't hear back from a certain lady whom I'd seen more than once.  I'd figure I'd crossed the line, offended her, was too fat, old gross, didn't tip enough, yada yada yada.  I'd send these apologetic follow up emails.  Over time I learned, that no, she just had very limited email response time available, and while there were many many things at which she was and is awesome, a prompt email response isn't part of that list.  And face to face she owns up to that!  And whenever she eventually got back to me, she assured me I'd done nothing wrong, etc.  And was never anything other than fabulous to spend time with.  But if you have to wonder if you've crossed the line, burned the bridge, whatever phrase you want to associate with your actions and how they may have run afoul of the "rules" of this activity, then you at the very least MAY HAVE, and by your own emails, looks like you did.

Reminds me of when I used to go to the Pink Pony and some nights, who knows why, couldn't get any of the ladies in whom I was interested to come my way for a dance.  Would tip heavily when they were on stage, tip my waittress to send her over, and still, sat there all alone.  With a pocket full of money, wondering what kind of loser am I that I can't get a stripper to strip for me when here she is, looking to make money.  And looking back, depression can give off awful vibes, and probably those vibes showed on my face, and that's why they walked on by.  Experiences like that were part of the thought process of deciding to try this hobby, doing my homework, feeling like I had made a good "match" in selecting the lady to schedule for an appointment, and most of the time leaving feeling wonderful, like my already high expectations had been surpassed.  

As others have said, figure out what you are doing here, and by here I mean in engaging in the hobby, not posting on TER.  I think you mentioned being married--figure out what is going on, or not going on there, too.  If you decide that you want to stay in the hobby, know what it is, and respect what it is not.  You are lucky--Atlanta is blessed with so many amazing, sexy, great ladies involved in the hobby, so even if the former lady has taken a step to protect you both by moving on, when/if you are ready for a fresh start, by the rules, these should be someone new, no matter what your tastes, whom you'd enjoy meeting and getting to know within the rules.

Thank you for all the feedback, including the lady I suspect was the topic here.  I apologize for bringing this issue here, just had nobody else to confide in. You are amazing, and I'm really sorry I made you uncomfortable. I hope one day we can put it past but I realize it will take some time if any. I won't make the same mistake again.  I got swept away with the "mind blowing"    chemistry and made a stupid judgement call.

Thank you for the input everyone.  Happy spring, and Easter. Going to take that break.

PMKing

Dude
She was probably just out of town. I tried to reach someone for three weeks but not every day. She responded last night; had to go away for couple of weeks. Sending you a PM.