Since the Dunwoody busts, I've had texts and emails ignored by new agencies and independents.  Agency closed up shop and all the providers I used to see have also left the business so I don't have references. I assume maybe this is why I get no responses but I'm pretty giving of information for screening and my follow up inquiries are still ignored.

How can I find out if I'm on a blacklist or something? I've never missed an appointment or short-changed anyone. I'm not a sugar daddy but I usually tip. I'm sure I've never offended a provider.

Maybe I just need references? Any petite ladies want to help me out?

If what you posted is honest, and you have no references, you can expect newbie screening.

Find a newbie friendly woman, there's plenty out there.

I doubt you're on a blacklist if what you say is true. You didn't mention whether you treat them kindly or not, also not whether you might or might not have EXTREME BO or halitosis, but those are only rarely the cause of a blacklist anyway.

I agree with SMH, and I'll add that it's not called a BLACKlist for nothing. The whole idea is that he target can never know for sure. Don't worry, you'll be okay. Lots and lots of fine fish in the ocean of wonderful women.

Blacklisted  is for safety.  Highly doubt you are there unless you are dangerous or a criminal thief

I did get a response and made an appointment. I guess it's just hard to get an appointment if you don't have fresh references. And I guess you can't be out of the hobby too long because there is turnover. Quite a few ladies retire and disappear and then you have to start over with references .... unless you have an account on these websites with reviews, which I guess I need to do.

Sorry, I am trying not to be a doubting thomasina but I really find it hard to believe that you have completely met the requirements of a (how many was that?) reliable provider(s)/agencies(s) for screening completely fulfilling all their requests and at this point have not been accepted.  Unless, of course all of the (how many was that, again?) provider(s)/agencie(s) were not currently accepting newbies which as already pointed out here you are since you have no current valid references..... or am I missing something.  Just for kicks if you are interested.........some of us are accepting Newbies still so why don't you give it a shot or not.
Suzee

I wish I was wrapped up in betwixt your legs, arms and lips right now. I bet it's nice and warm in all! I swear to you, I'm getting back there!

You are always welcome right back where you started, honey..........merry xmas

You've got me aching.

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

So, I had an appointment for today. Not sure what was supposed to happen. Was I supposed to contact the agency to confirm? In the past, they would contact me. But I did text the scheduler an hour before the appointment but did not get a response. So I'm not sure if I'm missing something because this has happened with other agencies. Is there just a lack of professionalism now? This is why I wonder if I'm on a blacklist. There's just a lack of communication from any agency I try to work with.  

Anyway, I think I'm done with this. What happened? Things were much better before the Dunwoody busts. It just sucks in Atlanta now.

Which agency are you talking about?

Have you used this agency before? You stated they “used to call you”? Why do you think this agency may have soured on you?

Why are you coming to this board and asking vaguely detailed questions about procedures?

I am beginning to be suspicious about your motivation until you start naming names.

Also you should probably take a long hard look in the mirror, it sounds like you’re the problem based on the little information you’ve posted.

To be completely candid, I'm beginning to wonder about this discussion. Something's just not right.

I think he’s a cop

... but when I smell something ratty it's usually something ratty that I find in the end, if I find anything at all. I've reviewed the poster's history on TER forums, which makes me wonder base purely on chronology of events. I know there have been independents who reached out to this poster. So what's with all the rejection stuff? This is as far as I'll go.

Wow, so I'm the one with the problem? And what motivations would I have?  

To clarify - I meant that agencies used to call me the day of an appointment to confirm. Agencies USED to be very professional and working with them was very smooth. When I first started using SEC, Misty let me know how she worked and communicated and that set expectations. This is all I meant about how knowing their process is helpful.

So I need to name names to ... ease what suspicions of yours? Who are you? Sounds investigative.

I had not used this agency before. They have not soured on me. While writing this, she responded (after 2.5 hours) and apologized that she was busy and missed my text. Then said she sent me a text this morning to confirm but I did not get that text. A door has been left open for me to try again. Interesting how the text came soon after I posted this. She also responded to my text for screening after I started this thread. Maybe coincidental.

Well, it's winter time so maybe your sniffer is a little off. I'm not a cop but it seems like you're doing a little investigation of my forum history. And .... oh my, an independent contacted me directly ... that's something of note!

That's as far as you CAN go.

what or who you are, and don't really care. If you don't want to make people wonder here about your intentions then learn from your participation here. You've whined about things here that are inexplicable. If you can't see it, not my problem.

Was it with SPA? Did you ever hear back from them?

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