You see a lady several time, have great track record with her.  The lady reaches out and suggest a visit, you make plans, confirm, spend money on wine, treats etc.  Then she sends note five minutes after date is scheduled to start.  "sorry, can't make it" now what.

Any high end lady or agency will ignore last minute booty calls.  You are basically NOT screwed tonight.

Do ladies understand we men may not be in business, but this behavior does us no good either.

I am not going to name this lady and I am using an alias.  I do not know why she bailed so last minute, there may be a reason I need to let her explain first before I decide how to handle.  But I really had to vent.  Damn it there is not even good porn at this hotel.  I am pissed, I wonder what strip clubs are near here.

Sorry to hear that, but without any further info, your post really doesn't help.

I agree, what happened sucks, and I personally hate NCNSs. The fact that it's 5 mins before - without an explanation, is even worse. But emergencies do happen. Perhaps the person in question will reach out to you and make proper considerations. Issues arise an any business, but that's not what a business should be judged on - it should be how the issues are handled. So I hope the person in question does handle the situation in an amicable manner.

But to be honest - and I may not the first person to say - your post, at the moment sucks! If you'd like to help your fellow man here, make a statement that helps. Get the explanation, judge it and let us know your opinion and on whom. I'm sure we'd love to hear it.

We hear about these things almost once a week. You may feel like you vented, so congratulations. But without any further info on who it was, you're the only winner here.

You're welcome!

PP

No info, and from an ALIAS yet!!! geeeze, waste of band width!

Partner this isn't a real date.  I feel for you but all the extra things that you got are on you.  I hate no shows as well but stuff happens.  If you want to wine and dines go chase a girlfriend.  This is about pay for play with no expectations and anything you get extra is all good.

MEN DO IT ALL THE TIME! BUCK UP AND DEAL WITH IT  lol

a venue to let off steam. This happened to me a year or so ago. I had a session scheduled with my regular, but she didn't show, no call or anything. After a few minutes, I went to plan "B."  My regular called later and said she had a family emergency and didn't have a chance to call me. Since NCNS is out of character for her, I accepted her explanation and we moved on. We've had several great meetings since then and the NCNS never came up again.

if I waited for a call or a note from indies who have stood me up, I'd still be waiting.  Oh ... wait a minute ... I still am.

Unfortunately, that's the way it goes.  Move on.

HS

Yea that sucks buddy. I feel for you. Hopefully you get something positive out of this. And I'm sure you didn't name her and you used an alias because you didn't want her to try and blacklist you. Vent all you want. Fuck em if folks don't like it. They can vent too.

Yup! Men do do it all the time , but ladies can just wait for the next paycheck to knock on their door now don't they ? Men are the customers and the customers are always right--most of the time.Women need to be more professional about this.Say , for instance , you had a very important Doctor's appointment or a car repair--and the doctor or mechanic , at the VERY last minute , cancelled the appointment. How would YOU feel then ?