DM means Direct Message. So you should see something in your Messages inbox. The replier sent you a private message
EOM means End of Message. Sometimes the person who replies to the forum thread puts all their words in the subject. So the message will say EOM.
Wondering if anyone else has experienced a problem with her canceling at the last moment? Had a three hour outcall booked two months in advance that she cancelled too late to find someone else. Then tried for a one hour outcall, had alibi all lined up, thank God she agreed to get room (never did), called 20 minutes prior to apologise she over slept.
I’ve seen her three times and she’s great, fun, sexy and talented but I’ve been let down twice.
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No experience with her but according to her website......"A 50% fee required for all no-shows or cancellations within 6 hours of appointment".
Sooooooooooo, considering her being the ever most consummate professional that she values herself as and in turn, valuing punctuality, dependability and commitment from others, it sounds as if she owes you $350.00.
This same thing happened to me as well with SS. If you've been around others that act this way, it's a classic behavior of a problem that needs professional help. I hope she gets help. I spoke to her best friend who is also in the industry because I was worried about her. Hopefully someone who is close enough to her will step in and get her help. But ultimately, she will need to make that decision. I don't mean her any harm.
Great post, hopefully you’re compassion will be regarded by this woman and she will get help
I hope so too.
Get well soon Sophia!
Oh no! I had my suspicions but was hoping this was not the case.
Unfortunately, I had similar issue with the same provider twice. The first time an apology was received and being sick was mentioned as a reason AFTER the appointment was missed which of course I have accepted and made another appointment. The second time, again No Communication till almost it was the appointment time and then I was first blamed for not contacting, and after the assistant was shown the evidence of contact, the assistant said there was some software issue on their side. I have not yet received an apology from the provider yet, and did not contact her again after that incident.
I am disappointed to hear she is so unprofessional you would expect better at these prices
DM means Direct Message. So you should see something in your Messages inbox. The replier sent you a private message
EOM means End of Message. Sometimes the person who replies to the forum thread puts all their words in the subject. So the message will say EOM.
I believe D(irect) M(essage)s are called P(rivate) M(essage)s here, and they are available to VIP members.
Hi fmsr. With your number of reviews, I assumed you are VIP. And thanks to hush and edin for deciphering my TLA (three letter acronym). Yes, I messaged you directly and privately.
However if you’re unable to pick up that message then just note, I had a similar experience as mentioned by others. I’ll leave it at that as SS has a number of very positive reviews. Should others need more info, feel free to PM me.
-A
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She did this to me in August by playing the "poor me-I'm a cute girl that is moving excuse". Under time pressure I allowed her to ruin one evening and I bought her story and set a new appointment for the next day. However the next morning I had better sense and put a full court press on her early. She copped an attitude to me! If you cant believe it read it again and then reply me with a message that say, "Thank you" because she never said "I'm sorry to me as she was staring in the mirror while on the phone with me. She deserves a few really-poor rated reviews to sober her up.
I think a lot of this has to do with OnlyFans. Unlike instagram and twitter, OF provides a revenue stream that requires the account owner to constantly create new content to maintain. This leaves the individual hobbyist in competition with the OF subscribers for the providers time and attention. I don’t book with any provider on OF simply because my experience has shown them to be flakier and more expensive or at the very least distracted from providing the best individual experience. For the price I’d want a girl with better focus.
Since providers on OnlyFans are for the most part simply publishing their own amateur porn, it’s like they are trying to be two things at once. Something I never fully understood is I thought the main benefit of providing over doing porn was discretion. Providers for the most part maintain their privacy and private lives. OF is still the internet, paywall or no, it will eventually be hacked or leaked and is forever. If as a provider you decide to step over that line, why keep providing? Just be a porn star?
There is one new local provider I am dying to see but have hesitated for that same reason. She looks like just my type but….
She's apparently taking after her very good friend (also in the hobby) who also cancels at the last minute.
I would plan a meeting with her days and sometimes weeks in advance, only to be told a few minutes before that "something has come up and I can't make it."
Well, one of those times I didn't get her cancellation email- that she had sent in the middle of the night- and drove 40 minutes to downtown that morning, parked, and texted for instructions to come up.
It's then I got a text saying, "Didn't you get my email? I'm not feeling well. So sorry!!"
I'm in the process of replying to her when... I see her walking into her building in her workout clothes, getting back from... JOGGING!! I tried calling out to her but before I could, she was in her building behind a locked security door.
This wasn't the first time it had happened. Suddenly I felt truly stupid. It had happened many times in the past and now I understood that when it did, she just wasn't "in the mood."
I never called her again. I thought about writing a review about it but decided not to.
I have a bit of a challenging life. I'm in a long-term relationship I cannot leave due to circumstances beyond my control where I am offered ZERO sex, touching, or affection, and expected to "deal with it."
And, like a lot of other guys here, getting away is difficult and take a lot of advance planning.
My advice? Move on to women who respect us, not only as "customers" but as people who are many times just trying to make it through life with women who could care less if we ever are touched again. If this is how she wants to act... then let her income crash until she has an attitude adjustment.
This behavior is completely unacceptable on her part.
She did it to me twice so as far as I am concerned she is black balled
I’ve seen her 4 times already and never had a problem—quite the opposite in fact. She’s always been right there on time. Sorry to hear she has her lapses at times.
Like another poster I have just recently spent some time with Sophia and her friend. It was my first with two ladies and I had a couple of challenges in arriving and getting to her. All I can say is she was extremely accommodating in every way. From communications to being understanding of my challenges and my first date with two women. She is the real deal and I wouldn’t hesitate to reach out to her.
Not holding my breath! Had an hour planned last week and she canceled that she was late from travel delays coming back to Atlanta around rush hour. Totally understandable and very sweet bubbly texts with an offer for the following morning or early afternoon. Couldn't make it work and kept texting with an offer from her on super bowl Sunday late morning or early afternoon, which I couldn't accommodate either. She's now on a trip to Tanzania and sounded really excited while letting me know shes looking forward to our date when she gets back (no return date\week provided).
My theory is that the free market dictates her schedule and those with lower tickets get the shorter end. Would you cancel on a 1 hour client if an overnight calls who loves throwing bitcoins at you? Since she's in a separate category from most providers, she will be getting the super hobbyists\sugar daddies that will unfortunately require some last minute reshuffling.
Curious about the duration of the dates on this thread.
Hopeful for a reschedule, but now expecting a few more before our 1 hour date.
Btw... Anyone use the Mr. Number app to 'screen' providers? I highly recommend it. Worth every penny
Sounds like you may have fallen for the alter ego lots of girls like to project. Jetset, high roller, blah blah, blah. I have been at this a long time and have many friends on both sides of the game. I can pretty much guarantee you are not the first person she has used the Tanzania story on which is why it sounds so plausible. It's well researched, well rehearsed, and at one time in the past maybe even about 10 percent true? Not faulting her mind you, being a with a girl like that is part of the fantasy many are paying for (spoils the vibe to hear that is her period week) but it is not fair to use it as a cover for simply being a flake or disrespectful of peoples time, which tends to be the truth in more cases. I can also attest to the fact that even the highest priced most "luxury" companions still only do maybe 1 or 2 overnights a year so I don't really buy you being "bumped" off the schedule. Most of the time weeks off are the result of a girl who is flush with cash (as many are now with onlyfans) while last minute schedule lapses unfortunately are a sign of emerging substance problems. In any case, smart not to hold your breath. My 2 cents.
lol wow