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I would agree with this. When I'm stressed, I'll call someone!

Everyone has their reasons as to why they hobby. People been hobbying since the cavemen.

Convenience to add a few other reasons.

Let me count the ways.

Boredom overcome by reading book, going to movies

Loneliness overcome by reading book, going to a sports bar, taking trip…..

Sex as hobby overcome by having sex with  providers

 
No neither my father, mother, teacher, priest, parents friend or anyone in the family or any stranger abused me as a child.

No addiction either because I control my spending on the hobby.

Some just like having sex with beautiful women because they have the means to do so.

Why is it so hard to understand. Is there need to attach a psychological reasons to everything we do. Psychologists are good at inventing non-existing mental diseases. Give it up, no reason to find reasons for every single thing.

Just to be balanced, and I'm sure that you neither want nor need my kudos - but this post absolutely nailed it on the head for me also.

I'm a middle aged guy and in todays world if you want a hot young girl then one way or another you have to pay for it. It's funny.....when I was younger I wanted the older girls and now that I'm older I'm only into hot young girls....LMAO.....Go figure!

Posted By: FriendoftheFamily
I'd say it's 20 - 80

...I'm horny & alone ( which isn't the same as lonely). I'm not interested in looking for an SO. I won't resist if one comes along though. I won't have a relationship without enough sex to satisfy me either so I'd break off the relationship if there wasn't enough because I wouldn't see providers while in a relationship.

It may not be the Hapless bunch of guys that we would think.... ask the ladies?? maybe a different answer.lol.  I've seen the guys at M&G's...my GF did also, half of them would "fit in her WheelHouse" We actually saw one from the last M&G in a restaurant the other night out with some "friends"... No words, just a silent/ discrete nod of acknowledgement from a few tables over. Keep it moving... Nobody's business in the street.

For me... ability to be with gorgeous women (probably above my normal grade), porn stars or just for the Phuck of it.... what's better than great time together???

Actually, I've noticed that it has paid dividends in civie life. With respect to confidence, approachability and having fun.

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Is it just my mood today or does the OP strike anyone else as someone trying to understand why a SO "cheated" on her or a loved one?  If so, imho, there is no single answer and even those answers will change day by day or provider by provider as the case may be.  Hence, I think 1woody's is "Spot" on.

Literally have addiction as the root cause. Just my opinion. ;-)

GK

He answered, "I don't pay women for sex, I pay women to leave after sex"  Can't argue with that.

As for me, it's a mix. Variety, exploration, horniness, certain acts unavailable at home, convenience...all combine for excitement.

For most, I doubt there is any ONE answer, I know there isn't for me.

For me, it is that occasonal chance to get away, go out on the town with a great looking woman on your arm, someone new and exciting and somewht mysterious...  It is like that first date with the sexy as hell girl you always lusted after and finally have your chance.  The opportunity to re-live your youth even....  It is really just a fantasy that gives you a chance to escape for an evening.  I prefer a full evening or maybe even an overnight...it is just a sweet escape....and a treat for working so hard 99% of the time!

Of needing to have your ego massaged, horniness, loneliness, vulnerability, adventure, delusion, machismo, variety, need for intimacy without responsibility or strings attached, ability to be absolutely free to express one's self sexuality without someone making judgments or keeping a "tab".  Men don't pay providers to have sex with them.  Men pay providers to be able to walk away after having sex with them.

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