So I have seen a couple providers in another state and have a strange situation that has come up, and need some advise. One of these ladies rocked my world and the other one, not so much! I did my homework before setting both dates up and one just didnt live up to her reviews IMO, and now she is sending me PM's asking me to "REMIND" her who I am. I gave her the date and location that we met, but she is now asking for my full name again! Something seems off with this to me, I know her scores were pretty high on avg but we just didn't hit it off. So my questions are as follows, should I take my review down? And why in the world would she need my full name again? Is this for some kind of black list because I was honest about my exsperence. I'm really stumped on why she would need this information, and btw the scores I gave her were 7 and 7, because IMO thats what she deserved!

So if a lady does not like a review, she can just have it removed? Does she have to give real proof that it is fake or not true?  Fake I can see, but opinions of a reviewer is his opinion as long as he did not really say some untrue items such as "odor", "dirty incall", "drastic difference in body size" etc.

Which brings up other discussions of high numbers or med numbers. The looks number is ONLY the reviewers view, one man's 9 or 10 could anothers 6 or 7, it is his view, his choice of the type of lady he likes, so there is and can be a large difference in the number.  Many guys will have consistent HIGH numbers on appearance as he picked that lady because of how she looks to him, RIGHT??

Now performance, there are guidelines to follow and should be adjusted to what it is, Damn, an 8 or 7 if you really think about it is pretty good,  and a "I did not think it was a service" could easily be just chemistry and YMMV!

I hope this is not considered a "hijack" as it is all related IMHO.

I also find myself somewhat agreeing with SBG.


Some advice for both hobbyist and providers. If your client or provider smells so gross to the point you're about to throw up, don't go thru with the session. As a client i would "Politely" say i can't under certain circumstances go thru with this and offer her a 50.00 cancellation fee. Ilovemyjob, you took this stank, gross smelling guys money...then you come here and bitch about him giving you a 7. Not cool not cool at all. As a provider believe me this job is a lot harder when you're not enjoying yourself! If he stinks to the point where you can't enjoy servicing him just call it quits.

This doesn't sound good and I can't see any way for this to go but ugly.  I can't imagine needing info after the meeting unless she is compiling a client database,....BUT if you two didn't hit it off; she felt it during the meeting and so then why would she want to keep you in her client database?  The only other reason I could imagine is the reason you are suspecting.  If anyone else could think of a legit reason why, please add it in.

If all you did is an honest review, you certainly don't deserve blacklisting.  If you pushed some limits that you knew existed before the meeting, or you knew her body type wasn't what you usually see going in, then IMO you've lost all bitching rights at that point.  But only the two of you know what really happened.  

disputing the review then admin will ask her to contact you to see if she can find out who you are before they will remove it.  Does she have your name associated with your handle? I would NOT give her the full name, just enough so that she can remember you (maybe your email address or number that she may know) She may just be trying to get the review removed. That is what it sounds like to me. IMHO I would not remove the review. A 7n7 is not the best review but certainly not the most horrible either.
best to you!
Hugs and kisses
TL

She can cimmunicate - and has - through PM - do not respond any further.

She sounds extremely dangerous.  Screening is done prior to meetings, not after.

She is the type woman that I would normally see. And I have never pushed boundaries in a meeting, that's why I do my homework so to speak. I didnt feel as if i bashed her in any way in the review either, it just seemed like a business transaction and not a GFE. I am concerned about her black listing me over what she may feel is a negative review, or worse. I did provide her with the date, location, and time that we met. However she is still asking for my email address and full name, all of which was provided during the screening process. At this point I don't care if they pull my review down, it's better than the alternatives. However if they do, then it just seems that reviews can be one sided and not a true reflection of each persons experience with that provider.

Let me just give you an example of what happened to me once. I had a review (a 7n7) that I had no idea who the gent was. Admin asked me to contact him to see if he could refresh my memory. Sure enough I DID know him so ofcaorse the review stayed. I for one have only disputed that one review because I honsetly had no idea who the gent was. I was just saying this COULD be the case here.  I did ask the gent who he was and how I may remember him. I did! lol I do believe the lady has to show something to prove it is fake. With this gents number of reviews seems that may be hard to do.If she did see him then I agree it should definitely stay. I dont think he should remove it just out of fear he may be blacklisted. Some ladies do threaten blacklist to keep the reviews high believe it or not. Which IMHO is total BS because so many ladies out there work so hard to get honest reviews. Sounds to me like this guy was just being honest and that they did not click. I have heard of some ladies also offering a "make up session" just to see if they can try again.
Hugs and kisses
TL

I think I would have given you much lower than a 7.  Lol

But you raise a point I've often wondered about.  What is a provider to do if a client is just gross and she can't get into it.  Truthfully, I think you should just admit that and refund the guy his money.  I realize that's easy for me to say and I don't know all the circumstances, but if you kept the guy's money, made him jerk off, and he still gave you a 9/7 review, I think you got off easy.  (Either that or you are SMOKIN' hot!)

No, you should not take your review down. It is your right to write a review on any girl that you've seen, regardless of how good or bad your time was with her. This girl doesn't need your name again unless you're trying to reschedule another appointment with her (which I doubt given your most recent experience with her). Trust your intuition.

A girl offering a "make up" session sounds too much like "buying" a good client review to me. Yes, it's a girl's right to offer and a client's right to accept. But that doesn't change the fact that the girl is trying to "buy" a good review.

You should have been upfront and honest with your client about his hygiene issues. Your failure to do so only invited the appearance that your performance was lacking and the resulting review.

I think there may be some confusion here...you are NOT the person that I met. I rated the lady I met a 7-7, and personnel hygiene is not an issue in this case, other than hers. Which I mentioned nothing of in my review, I only stated the fact that it felt like a business transaction and not a GFE. I have seen some wonderful ladies in Atlanta and just wanted to try a few in other states that I vist. Bad choice obviously, and if the review is removed because I stated my opinion of my experience then reviews are bias and one sided. I have paid for VIP for years so that I may avoid situations such as these, when I see a provider I like to know in advance if she has "issues" so to speak. Of the many GREAT times I've had there are only TWO of the not so great ones, and obviously this is one. And rapidly getting worse by the minute...

My concern is if I do provide her with my email information can she black list me because of what she may feel is a negative review? You mentioned my number of reviews, how does that pertain to her remembering me?

I am a larger man and I have always been concerned about my cleanliness and hygiene. I can tell you that I would feel horrible if I felt a woman I was with was enduring a stinky odor from me. I won't endure this with a stinky provider and have asked a provider to go shower before I continue to daty and have even left because I felt she was too dirty for me to even want to be with. To me cleanliness is paramount. I want no hint of the other guys she has seen that day.
If the guy refused or was insulted, I think you have every right to cancel the session. As for the donation, I think that is between you and him. At the least he should give a token donation for your time and expense.

Just my .02,

Willy

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In my opinion, if she got a 7-7 then OK…..she should stop the bitching, complaining and hassling this fellow because he gave his honest opinion of their time together. To me, a 7 isn’t that bad of a review so move on and learn from it. Now if a reviewer gave a 2-2 and the provider feels that she the section was better than the score, then reach out to admin to make your case. I don’t feel contacting the client and starting a “Bitch Slapping” situation helps the matter, but I do understand contacting the client, in a professional manner and offering a “Make Up Section”. Who knows, someone may have had an off day which we all do some time or another, but don’t threated to “Blacklist” someone because the provider got a bad review. Blacklisting is made for protecting others and “Taking out the trash”. This is why the TER is so valuable to us all, and it starts with being honest and professional so all can be informed.

Just my opinion........

Also I did not post under an alias...because I have nothing to hide! My reviews are my HONEST opinions of the time I have spent with that provider. I have seen a young lady that knew our time together wasn't what I expected and she gave me a discount to come back and see her (her idea NOT MINE) she had some things going on in her personel life. The second visit was a much, much better encounter! And i didnt do a review based on our first time, or for that matter our second...I have seen her a number of times now. However I don't think a second visit is what this lady has in mind, she knew I was visiting. And she even asked me if I did reviews on TER since this is where I found her, and ask me to write a review. Her location doesn't have the number of reviews that say Atlanta does and new reviews keep her name on the new reviews board.

I have seen you sweetie and you have reviewed me. If you look through my reviews you will see that I have some 6s and 7s. I was upset by those scores but I feel that was their honest opinion of their review.
  I would not give her anymore information at this point. You were honest. I know you and know that you do not do things to just mess with people.
  If she did blacklist you, you still have girls that know you and will let others know that you are a  person of quality!
  I will give anyone a GREAT reference for you.  Do not sweat the small things : )

           Kisses,
                 Whitney

I am just trying to be helpful here! I am not saying that the number of reviews you have has anything to do with how she would remember you. It only will help when admin is trying to determine if it's real IF she desputes it! That is the only reason I can figure she is asking your name.
Mshsex I dont agree with you at all. To be quite honest, you are a prick that has nothing better to do than act like a complete dumbass and make comments to try to be hurtful all because your a miserable prick! To me a  make up session is when a lady truely cares about her business and is trying to make it right. I for one dont want anyone unhappy that has seen me. If I feel I was in error then I would have no problem "making it up to him" I am not paying for anything, especially for reviews or sex!
You know like I said I was just trying to help BUT I can see that you all just want to start some shit so I am done on this thread!
Thanks A LOT!
Have a good day

Thanks Whitney you are a sweetheart, I just didn't want someone black listing me because of an honest review of an encounter! I PAY for VIP and don't write reviews for that, I write them so guys like myself have a have a true understanding of what to exspect...perhaps I missed some previous reviews of her that she had pulled! However this does leave me a little jaded about seeing any NEW providers, I'll just stick with the lovely ladies that I have already seen..such as yourself!

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No deference to you TL, but the system in general, but......

Do not want to change the thread, but the numbers 7 & 7 by the TER definition should be real good numbers and not viewed as less than good.  We hobbiest have skewed them so the number system means nothing (Can't say I have not been guilty). A 7 definition is =really hot.

I never said that a girl trying to "buy" a good review from a client was a bad thing. Good companies that care about customer satisfaction and what their customers think also try to "buy" good reviews and word-of-mouth referrals by doing what they can to make things right. Believe what you want but no for-profit enterprise, company or working girl, does things out of the goodness of their hearts. Every actions is geared towards sustaining or growing the business.

.....and in no way , shape or form should you provide her with your full name....

Well, you know the rest. Avoid her like the plague cause she wants to mess you up! There's lots of girls out there who think they're twice as good looking as they are and they don't take ego "hits" very well.
In my opinion, the less she knows about you the better.

When I see a guy and he's rated me under a 7, the only reason I'm getting his info is to make sure I know who he is and I don't see him again. Nothing bad against him, that's just want I would wanna do.

It's fairly obvious that my response was to Ilovemyjob. Her post is quoted in my reply to it.

I feel sorry that you had to see a guy who was in such a state of "disrepair".