this too long and I wanted to know if the BBFS is just an unspoken part of this.  I have only been with a few wonderful ladies but have noticed when I am with some of the higher end and highly ranked escorts, that BBFS is sort of offered.  By that I mean, we start of with BBBJ, move to CFS several positions, back to more BBBJ and if I haven't cum yet I've had more than a couple move to slide me inside sans condom.  I'm not going to name anybody and I know that the ladies obviously do BBFS in their private life which could vary from not often to very often, who knows.  

Everything I went back and read has tons of people saying that they would never and it appears everyone says they don't but my experience seems to show a willingness even with someone like me who isn't overly attractive and definitely didn't ask for anything remotely extra like that.  In fact, everytime it freaks me out and I've never been back to see any of them.

Just wanted to know everyone's thoughts on the subject or if it is something that is left unspoken.

You were offered BBFS by high-end ladies. You are not going to name them. How nice of you. Then, you come and post and you know it is a taboo. So, purpose of your post can be boiled to two:

1. You crave attention.

2. You want create drama.

Tell us if the purpose is anything other than the two!

No, I'm not craving attention and I'm not trying to create drama.

I just wanted an honest (or as close as honest as you can get on a message board) if this was common.  The only reason I put that I have seen higher end escorts was just because I didn't want people to confuse it with seeing bp girls or anything.

I'm sure I could have worded my initial post differently, but I'm pretty new to this and I don't post very often so I guess I'm not up to speed on all the protocols for finding out information.

I said I knew it was taboo simply due to the fact that you cannot state that it occurred in a review.  

Not seeking attention and definitely not seeking ladies who do this.  I'm fine if no one else responds publicly but I would appreciate everyones thoughts if they could PM me.

Are u crazy? That opens you up to many diseases and if she does it with you she is doing it with others. run!

My thoughts about another alias poster claiming BBFS with high-end highly ranked escorts?

1. Hogwash

2. Poppycock

3. Bullshit

Them's my thoughts. (just sayin')

because it does happen in all price ranges of the hobby.
Reasons vary from offering up the ultimate taboo in pay for play to expand  business.  To there may be a "relationship" thing going on.  Some girls just may like how it feels...who knows.

Fact is we are all kinda connected so everybody needs to make good choices in their own best interests.

Kind sir:

Have you noticed that not ONE provider has replied to this?  Perhaps there is a VERY obvious reason for this...

THEY DON'T WANT THAT FACT EXPOSED!

Look, I have been hobbying for several years now and have had many memorable experiences.  Some of them are simply NOT to be told.  I have had instances where FBSM therapist constantly state NO FS, only for us to fuck like dogs.  Just yesterday I had one to tell how she is newly engaged and does no FS and no oral, and didn't want to even go into a HE, only minutes later for us to be in a heated 69 about to devour each other to death!  Yet I don't post ALL of what goes on here.  Some providers will do BBBJ's when they get to know you after they normally only do CBJ's...and so on.  You get the idea.

Simply put, you might have just ruined your chances of continuing to have the luxury you once enjoyed by speaking to much to aloud.  If you are getting perks, ENJOY THEM QUIETLY.  Do not speak about them aloud, as it could ruin something good for you and you only.  I have made that mistake several times and ended up kicking myself for it because I can't go back even if I wanted to.  From now on, if you ever get so lucky again.  Write a nice review if that's what you want, but keep the EXTRAS between you and the provider.  She will appreciate you for it and I'm sure you'll enjoy that appreciation again and again.

If you aren't seeking ladies who do this, what is your point in posting?

Not judging, just asking....

Not crazy - I never said I went through with it - just that its been offered more than once or twice during the festivities.  Every time seemed to start the same way and nothing was ever said just that they would start to try to put it inside them.

I was just wanting to know if this something many others also experience.  Looks like I have my answer - that it does happen a lot and that people don't admit to it and don't talk about it.

Like I said below - I just wanted to know if others have had the same experiences - I don't for a second think I'm special, but no one seems to ever talk about it and it seems to happen to me enough that I thought it was worth asking if it's more common than people are willing to admit.

Kinda what I thought - it's more common than people admit & it's unspoken

Thanks again - ill quit talking now

Why is it that no matter where you look, where you listen, what you see, there is always some damn people trying to tell everyone else what to do, what to say, blah blah blah.

Here we have somebody telling everyone else how to have sex.  We also have somebody else critizing the OP as an attention seeker, and then has the balls to accuse the OP of creating drama.. LOL  what hypocrisy.

Why oh why must there always be somebody telling others what they can do, what they can say, adnasia?

I'm so sick of people trying to tell me how I can have sex, where I can have sex, when I can have a gun, who to vote for, what food to eat, what I can post on the boards, how to brush my teeth, what donations to make, and on and on and on.  Geeesh... Live and let live for christ sakes.. stay out of everyone elses business.

Regardless of the pro or con or bashing comments, my advice is to go get tested for STD's ASAP if you have been inside a lady even if just an inch, so to speak.  

Usually I would sign off with the phrase "Have fun and be safe" but not sure what to say with this thread!!!

Z

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Some people have no problem judging us, potentially ruining our lively-hood. Never once, judging themselves.
Its as if we are not human beings but property left  for some of you to hang us out to dry.
Thank God some of you get us.. REALLY GET US. (including the gentleman whose post I am responding to)
It takes one bad review to ruin a girls reputation. Every-time a man walks through our door, we are in an unpredictable situation and we take it like a champ. Your secrets are safe with us. Please return the favor.

would you do bare back with a provider or somebody in the hobby.

what level of trust would it take?
or would that be what level of lust?

Don't value their dicks much.

Continuing to do so will eventually lead to your dick dripping or eventually falling off!

Those who participate in BBFS enjoy... I'll continue using TROJAN® Ultra Thin Lubricated Condoms during intercourse

They are going to lie all around.

Iwould agree with Ziggy.I would  get tested ASAP. BBFS is playing with loaded GUN.I have not seen many ladys an never been offered BBFS.

...when you logged in on the right hand side it asked if you would participate in BBFS, and I was surprised at the number of "yes" responses. It wasn't a majority answer, but it was still a lot higher than I thought it would.

I think insinuating (as I felt a previous post did) that simply because someone has a great review means that BBFS happened gives the wrong impression for the majority who don't engage in such practices. On the other hand, if two consenting adults chose to engage then so be it. It isn't something I do, but doesn't interfere with my day at all if someone else does.

I also agree that sometimes things go on between people that not everyone needs to know about... can't go around sharing all our secrets ; )

Those who will, will and those who won’t, won't . Pretty mush end of the store. You will have better luck trying to solve World Hunger!

Another Jealous fatty who should stop crying and start running more laps .

The hot ones are at the gym while jealous ones stuff their face full of chips.