...I see reputable ladies. I make sure I'm clean for her. Get tested so I know I don't have anything to pass along.

Even better, become a celibate.

When I first started, I used this for research: http://www.medhelp.org/forums/STDs/show/116. You'll find your answers there.

I've seen a few FBSM providers, but have been VERY intrigued by a certain few that provide a BBBJ finish. Mainly because I have never, with any girl I've been with in my personal life, cum from oral. I'm not a quick guy at all lol. So a lot of the intrigue comes from wanting to finally experience that, but even though its an incredibly low risk activity, I still can't get the cautionary voices in the back of my mind to shut up long enough to pull the trigger. And to me it doesn't seem like good etiquette to call or email asking 'how clean are you?' 'Whens the last time you got tested?' LOL! Maybe I need to stop over thinking and just go get blown..