but fortunately I don't need to, and quite frankly seeing a different woman every day is still cheaper than my previous hobby. Of course my previous hobby was high stakes casino gambling. lol

Personally.....

I have always had long term goals when it comes to the hobby. Flipping burgers part time makes it hard to save up the money to see the ladies I want too, but maybe one day I will have enough money saved up to see a top rated provider and if I am real lucky a Ms. TER. I can't wait to show her a photo of me in my uniform holding my employee of the month certificate. LOL

...beg, borrow or, consider, steal. 😄

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As for potentially putting my family's needs in a bind so I can play? Hell no, when ya get to that point it becomes an addlction not a hobby. Only play with money you can afford to throw away. So when the play money isn't there I don't play. As for time constraints I've done some shit I never would have imagined myself doing before the hobby. Faked work trips out of town, fake fishing trips with fictional fellas at work the SO will never meet, I've pushed a few limits to make time or put myself in a different location than where I was supposed to be, as much as 300-400 miles.  But never let it interfere with the house payment or the kids needs, I'd put myself on the same level as a heroin addict if I did that.