I had a 90 min appointment set up for today with an out of state provider with high scores and great reviews. I set everything up like three weeks in advance. Did nothing wrong that I know about. Her incall was downtown and I live about 45 mins north of downtown. I made sure to leave about 30 mins early because I knew there would be traffic. Before I left I emailed her for her incall. On the drive down I would check my email every five mins. I finally got to CNN center(she had told me through previous email that her incall was around here) and still no reply. I emailed her again requesting her incall address. Finally, the appointment time passes and I still hadn't received any reply. Is there a special place in hell for this kind of person? At least have the common decency to let me know that you need to cancel so I don't have to make a two hour round trip. Still pissed😡...

Is she still here - let a brother know who she is so we don't make the same tactical error - PM is fine

If you hadn't spoken with her in 3 weeks, she may have cancelled the tour or left town early. May I suggest, that next time you might try contacting her the night before to confirm your appointment. Hopefully, she would respond back or let you know she left early or cancelled the tour.

Well the original time was suppose to be Tuesday. I emailed her on Monday to tell her I needed to reschedule. She agreed to reschedule for Wednesday at 12:00pm. On Tuesday, she emailed me to see if we could move it up to 11:30 to which I agreed.  

Is that against TOS to out a provider? Would I get in trouble?  

That is why I asked for the PM. Thank you for sending it as I was considering her.

You are very welcome!

It is one of the reasons for TER.  Name her.

Mia Hug

And she never bothered to contact you!?

Yes sir. We emailed back and forth on Monday and Tuesday. I emailed her about four times today and never got a response.

Not good at all

You are most certainly allowed to name names, but it does give her (and her White Knights) a chance to tell her side of the story.  

she decided to keep the LA rate.  

Just lie and say something came up. I would've been fine with that and I wouldn't have had to make the drive. I did receive a PM from someone else who had a NCNS from Mia as well. He said he had a 3 hour reserved yesterday. I still have not received any communication from her... On to the next one...

She just emailed me saying she was in the hospital all day. I'll be the first to apologize and hope that you are feeling better. Please accept my sincerest apologies.  

Was she so ill she couldn't let you know ?

That's where you fucked up

Her email is suspiciously timed, as Hoefer points out

whatever the reason, its over and done now.

Well, I would say you were under some duress there because the sharks sensed blood in the water, so it was eat or be eaten ......c'est la vie, suzee

Unless you get blacklisted

My experiences have been allergy/sinus issues in Fall made me go back and forth with a fantastic agency over a gal. I had a sinus headache that made it impossible to drive. The agency handler was most pleasant  when I called the morning of the pre-scheduled appt. I sounded like I'd smoked a carton of Marlboros without sleeping. 2 weeks later, that same provider had the same type issues and the handler offered me a visit with someone else, but I know what and who I desire and try my best not to let "lil kosh" get the best of me. I never did get the opportunity to see that young lady before she retired/moved on, but Life is too short to sweat it.

With a "high" caliber having a large diameter and a "low" caliber being a pencil dick. lol

to relate what happens to a provider as I would what happens at my job.  If I am dead, or in a life-threatening position, then sorry but my boss isn't gonna know about it until later.

You have gained much face for whatever that is worth.  I wish there were something we (your fellow mongers) could do for you other than say "attaboy" but - it is what it is

...thread did not convey what you are saying here.

...what you're railing against. I don't think providers should be kept in their proverbial place and you will find many if not most here don't either. I and many others don't complain about why/what providers charge. I hope you'll note in my initial response on the caliber thread I agreed that there are those guilty of what you're saying. My reason for posting there and here was to take issue with you lumping all Atlanta mongers that hobby at rates lower than Mia's together as low caliber by stating "If you'd like to keep the caliber of clientele you enjoy in Los Angeles then I'd advise you keep your same rates." You made a sweeping statement encompassing all here. That is what I take (and took) issue with. It would be appreciated if you could acknowledge that.

You seem a little needy and co-dependent

I think you meant  exactly what you said, said exactly what you meant,   I think you said it again and I think you clarified it, semantics and parsing aside by others I see where you offended none, period.............suzee

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...of clients who do what you are speaking against.