I noticed a new review today where the guy said the provider does not resemble her pictures and is "more like a bbw"

Honestly,  how are we going to get any women back here if that's what they can expect from us??

Do you have reason to believe this is not an honest review? Getting the women back is a good thing but being dishonest or hiding things to make it happen is beneficial to no one.  

 
If you have evidence this reviewer is being dishonest you should share it here.

Anina Love is one of the few women who have posted on this board in 2020, and I just don't think it is necessary to describe her this way.

On her Sugar Nights ad: "I’m an African American bombshell with ALL natural curves. Standing at 5'5, 150 lbs."  I've seen ads where the lady self-describes as a BBW, so it's not a derogatory term any more than Spinner is.  Some guys prefer big women.  Some guys like them small/petite.  Some guys like them average.  Some guys like them all.

Recent photos help set appropriate expectations...

Hot much!

One man's "curvy" is another's "BBW" but of course both are certain their opinion is the correct one.

 
I recall once when two gentlemen I met just a couple days apart had VERY different opinions: one said I was athletic and the pics didn't do me justice, while the other reported I was bigger than in my photos.  :shrug:

 
Awhile ago, when I was advertising a Southern California visit, more than one interested person referred to me as "full-figured" and "plus sized" and even "small BBW".    

Perceptions vary and it can definitely be a regional thing: I'm treated like a supermodel in Wisconsin and gentlemen there frequently ask how I stay in such great shape!  

 
So just because one guy considers her a BBW doesn't necessarily mean she's gained weight and also....  that might have been the nicest way he knew how to say she was not what he expected or prefers.

is keeping the reviews honest.  I think back in the day providers appreciated the
opportunity to be reviewed and discussed here.  TER reviews have always been erring
on the high side favoring the woman.  I think most men appreciated the work done
by our providers.  there are other sites with far more brutal reviews.

First of all, thanx for having my back! I too thought the description was a bit of a reach and considering my experience with this particular guy, I consider it to be retaliation. He conveniently left out how late he was for our meeting and because of his behavior and how uncomfortable he made me, I cancelled on him. Per my website, under my Etiquette guidelines, I will do just that if you refuse to follow my instructions or make me uncomfortable in any way. Diesnt matter the time, day or place. If I'm uncomfortable, I cant perform. I let him know I'll be cancelling because he made me uncomfortable. That is not a ghosting. So that was a lie. That's why it's important to read a provider's FAQs.  

He also didnt mention how he contacted me from a different number to rebook me after I informed him I didnt want to see him. But oh well. He somehow weasled his way through my screening. I didnt realize it was him until this review. I had to do some digging.

HOWEVER! I am totally guilty of not updating my pics. I deal more with regulars so I have completely dragged my feet on doing another pro photoshoot. And as you can see, I had even become lax in my advertising as far as posting. In this business I can admit, that is unacceptable & unfair to the fellas. I do take heed to feedback and am working on updating my pics.

Although I think bbw and claiming i dont even resemble my pics is a stretch. I am indeed a bit more voluptuous than my pics which is why I atleast try to update my weight on my advertising. I've gone from an 6 in dress to a 10. Just to give an idea here. And since most of my clients love my body I just chose not to worry about them.

That I take full responsibility for and would like to apologize to anyone that saw me and felt mislead.

Updated pics will be coming as soon as possible. I'm currently shopping for items and have already gotten in touch with a photographer.

Again, thanx for having my back.  Although the entire situation with this guy has left a bad taste in my mouth when it comes to this board and this business altogether. Especially reading some of these responses here. 🙄 🤐

Anyway, I was feeling really down because of this review and this made me feel a whole lot better. Whoever you are, I very much appreciate you. 😘🧡💜🙏

-Anina Love

-- Modified on 10/15/2020 8:14:22 PM

Tis, as you point out, a biz on the provider side. On my side it’s more a hobby, and for some an addiction me thinks. But I digress. From the biz perspective it is noteworthy that all shapes and sizes have a market. But no one wants to be disappointed. Photos communicate. Reliable photos alleviate disappointments. That makes for better business, which ends up helping everyone.  

I think I acknowledged all of that in my post but thanx fir the reiteration.  
🍪👍🏾

This may be a little off topic for this thread but I checked out your site and love your photos. Since you're posting on the Atlanta board do you come here? Or planning to soon-ish?  

No such thing as bad publicity if it gets more eyes on your product

Maybe this was a bad choice of words but yuck.  Companions offer their SERVICES.  You can't buy my body parts and take em home as a souvenir lmao.

They're not cheap but are light years ahead the traditional inflatable doll.  www.realdoll.com

Oh how I wished the board would allow the ladies to review the guys as well.  I think that would help level things out, LOL.  

There would be an amazing number of small dicks lolol

Thanks for proving my point a chance for more eyes on my "service"

Wrong they complain about the big ones way before they complain about the small ones

Hi! Haven't been here in ages, and recently realized it was time to dust off my f**k me shoes and come back out to play and of course TER is my first stop!  

Im not defending anyone here, just sharing some thoughts.  

The last 9 months have been crazy in our nation and many people have put on what they, Drs and trainers, are calling covid 20, meaning they've put on 20lbs from not being allowed to be as active as normal and stress eating.  

Adding that into the fact that body shape descriptions are on some levels personal views. What one person views as flat as a pancake, others describe as cute and perky and curvy to one could be bbw to others.  

Many women have more ads out than they sometimes are aware of, we all know sites that place ads without approval from companions and while most people try to be honest, getting all ads changed isnt always possible.  

Just some random thoughts on it.  

Hoping to be able to meet some of you soon. Lol, I have been so lonely with all this crazy covid stuff thats been going on and miss the companionship that this hobby provides!  

Sabine

P.S. Im not a VIP so I cant read messages 😭