This has really caused me some probs in past. Had a date with a provider. Didn't follow up with post-date appt. We just went home. So gave her 300 anyway and said I'll take a rain check. She got really pissed when I didn't collect the rain check timely enough. Won't talk 2 me now. Now another provider, former magnificent gold club dancer, wanted 250 2day 4 something. I said sure, but I'm not ready for an appt (I'm 62 and only good for about twice a wk). But I'll give you the money today, which she needed. So took her 2 lunch. Gave her the 250. Told her I wanted her to say to me in a very seductive voice, "I promise to fuck you." She did. Kissed her goodbye. Now she says she wants Mon appt. What god forbid if that's not convenient. Should I keep it anyway or put her off. Thanks.

Those are basically loans that are to be repaid and that's never a good position to be in.