Hi everyone,
First time posting here, I haven't seen this covered exactly, though Silkshaft's previous post is an angle to this.
I have seen several ladies who have commented on the skilled use of my tongue. My girlfriend is apparently not as impressed since she declines the service. So my question is three parts:
1. Do you ladies praise for all efforts or just those you feel are exceptional?
2. Do you ladies have any issues with directing the efforts, or will you let a man stumble along hoping he gets it right / not wanting to offend him?
3. Guys, do you want input from the ladies on your performance, or do you prefer an appreciative audience regardless of your effectiveness?
I look forward to the answers!

My response to #3 is, Yes I want input from the ladies. If I ask tell me. If you would like something as we go along, say so. I also like appreciation for what goes well. I'm not opposed to constructive criticism.

Overall I think you will get nearly as many different answers as there are people who answer.

lady that she isn't comfortable with. It's better to know up front.

I think it is very important to always remember that these gal's are generally not here for a satisfying - over the top-sexual experience for themselves but are there to please their client.  More often they are likely to politely tell you what they don't want to do or have done.  Most of us like to perform oral on the gal-but fact is if you were to get their honest feedback-it isn't that great for them-remember-this is a pay for fun proposition-so of course you want to have the best experience possible-but don't have the expectation that the gal is having as much enjoyment out of the time slot as you are!  Be polite but concentrate on your own pleasure and don't be reluctant to ask for what you want!  

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Sounds like your GF is missing out!  Or maybe she comes very easily from intercourse so she just wants to do that.  I don't know the details.


As to your questions, my responses are as follows:

1.  Yes, I praise all efforts because I really appreciate effort.  However, I would not tell someone they were great unless they were!  I do not believe in being fake.  I am very real and say what I truly think and pride myself on this.

2.  Great question!  This is something that is case-by-case for me.  If I think the man is receptive to constructive criticism / guidance (as I am), then I will gently direct him.  Why have him wasting him time down there, you know?   Everyone likes different techniques, so I figure that they probably want to know what pleases YOU!

3.  I'm not a guy, so I can't answer this one.  


~Genna

I want direction.  I crave the sound o a woman climaxing !