I like it best when the woman takes control of the situation and is determined to get exactly what she wants. That, in and of itself, is the biggest turn-on for me. As far as providers go, my experience is limited (non-existant really) so I can't say. I would guess that I would enjoy a similar arrangement.

Oooooohhhhhhh!  That's a great question!  I'm looking forward to reading all the juicy responses!

As for what REALLY turns me on... I just love prolonging the pleasure and keeping my guy on the very edge for as long as possible with either my French skills or magic hands.  But I like using my French skills best.  I can go nearly the whole session just speaking French.  I guess it is that I like to be giving pleasure and being in control at the same time.  I nearly have an orgasm speaking French I get so turned on.  And I've had few special women friends come visit as well.  I just love their tasty treats.

But what gets me turned on the very most is a threesome with a girl and a guy.  There is nothing like hard candy and sweet honey all at the same time!

Bring me your candy or your sweet honey and I'll savor it slowly!

I do enjoy a variety...

I think honestly for me it is the sense of adventure...Always getting to be seductive...

Lets face it...IF we the provider were married to any of the hobbiest here I bet our sex life and kink would not be as active as it is now...

Life tends to get in the way of the excitement with your SO...

So for me it gives me the opportunity to be the sexual being that I am...


AS for Devil Boy...I wanna take control...  

xoxo
HEIDI

Re:Here are a few questions for ya... let's get creative

Brooke-

I love this topic!  Only thing is that what "makes [my] primal desire turn loose" varies from provider to provider, my mood, etc.  Sometimes, it's just a look she gives me or something she says.  Other times, it could be that I was always in my "primal desire" moment b/c I was already  (ahem) horny.  Other times, it's something that can't be defined.  It could just be the "right moment" or something.  Ultimately, my most enjoyable experiences with a provider is when I feel a connection of some sort.  Perhaps, I'm unique in this assessment, but it's just the way I am, I guess.

I love it when a lady really gets into it.
Like while I'm busy DATY.
Moans, talk, humping, grabbing my ears.
I am completely outta control.
Has not happened since yesterday.
Thanks DAK...

I really like two things...

1) DATY to the point that she is writhing and pushing me away, but I just push in for more

2) (This is the selfish one). Having the lady kneel in front of me and just grabbing her hair and driving it home Also like the derivation where she is lying down while I am doing this

OOOHHHH, I'M A BAD BOY....

Sorry if this is too graphic...

kissing is probably the single biggest turn on for me. slow soft sensuous kisses. first on the lips and then slowly work your way around my neck, chest, stomach etc. moving to the firm/hard passionate kissing comes after several visits.

of course being able to turn (really) the lady on and knowing that I am pleasing her. sometimes orgasm for her isn't acheived until the second or third visit. as I get to know her then I can provide more stimulation.

and of course if she is tight and can squeeze those vaginal muscles around Jr. then that is excellent.

BBBJ is terrific as long as no teeth are involved

I will quit writing now and call you.