I am going to be in Atlanta late next week and am interested in playing for the first time in a little while. Ideally i would find someone for some strap-on play and snowballing, and under 40. Any recommendations would be appreciated.

But you’ll keep seeing same names. I’ll throw out the Queen (IMHO). Ginger Taylor. Imaginative, onto it and an amazing lady. If she can’t help (and I know for a fact she can meet the topics you List)

If not. She will have a great idea for who can.  

That said , I look forward to answers.  Returning to hobby (some) after a long hiatus. ATF’s long gone need replacing.  
Let the hunt begin.

Vanessa Vaughn is okay with strap on play but she's gotten a little larger then her pictures.
She doesn't know the word NO.