So I sent an email today to a new lady I saw advertising on 2 prominent hobbyist ad sites.  I told her I'd love to meet her, and provided my screening information  to get that out of the way.  Her ads included "GFE", "independent", "no agency fees", "low volume, high quality", etc.  And sexy pics.
 
I just got an email response saying that she doesn't see hobbyists, is a real person with a real life and can't take the risk, etc.  And that the ATL hobbyist community is often agencies cops and AAs who can barely use the English language correctly--not her cup of tea.  Then proceeded to tell me that I should rethink my position on posting reviews since IP addresses can be easily tracked and the NSA story should have me being more cautious.
 
Um, you're posting on 2 sites where providers post ads to attract hobbyists, and best I can tell from tineye, nowhere else (would have expected to see her on a sugar daddy or even a dating site).
 
A little strange, eh?

you possess a special cloaking device that masks your IP and bends light so you are invisible to the black helicopters.  

Aside from some slight paranoia, she sounds like she likes herself to be out there, but only on her terms.

In this case, since you spent the time to interact with this "provider" and found that time to be wasted, sharing a link to help the rest of us avoid the same fate would be ok.

Sometimes, when reporting something of a ymmv nature, we tend to protect the identity of the provider in question.  It is completely understandable if you choose not to post a link.  It might help some of us, though.

Namaste,
Marti

I understand your point. However, let me remind us that this lady has the right to expect a date on her terms, especially considering challenges escorts face in the usa. Here in London where I am guys accept that dates are on the ladies terms. This because they understand escorts have to be careful in order to keep safe.

Different peole different circumstances, I guess.

I do agree that the tone of the responce suggests she speaks from above if you know what I mean..serena x

it sounds like she does not like you perhaps because reviews you have wrote or perhaps because of word of mouth? Who knows. Anyway, it is your right to propose a date and her right to decline it.Simple.

Sorry if this is not the responce you were expecting

Serena x

Serena,

What brings you to Atlanta's board?  Are you planning a visit?

If so, may I move to the front of the line, please?

Of course, you are correct in saying that the lady in question gets to decide who she will and who she will not see based on any criteria she wishes.  This is a given.  I think the OP's point was the paradox between her online postings and the nature of her response when contacted via the methods she provided.  Her admonition regarding IP addresses seems quite hollow when one realizes in placing her ads, she no doubt left an IP address trail herself.  Nevertheless, she is entitled to see whoever she wishes on her own terms and deny service if she is not comfortable.

Your website and reviews describe an incredible lady.  It is easy to see that you are strikingly beautiful and classy.  Your posts also demonstrate your intelligence.

Should you ever venture to visit Atlanta, I'm certain you would be extremely well-received.

Martin

Not saying ladies don’t have the right to accept dates on her terms but the lady did not say what those terms are. Instead, she went on to pontificate and provide unsolicited advise which is completely out of line.  

She posted on two ad boards so, OP enquired and she should have told him her terms or not respond but she has no right to advise her as if he didn’t know what he was doing about IP tracking, NSA, blah, blah.  

Don’t really care what you do or don’t in UK, this the US and expect sticking to the point. I understand, Brits can talk for 20 minutes straight without taking a breath, which I am always puzzled as to how you guys and girls do that. Is there some kind of a training all of you receive as a child or something? I tell you, I am very enamored by it!

 

She could have said something more diplomatic than providing unsolicited advise or nothing at all. Unsolicited advise any kind would irritate the hell out of me from someone I don’t know. What makes her think the OP doesn’t know any of this?

I disagree this is a mutual sport both parties have equal say in play, both parties need to be safe and understand the other persons needs and concerns and both parties should be respectful of others person and time. Anything less is simply just less. She was rude and uncalled for.  

But look at the bargain you saved in finding things out this way. Remember there is always a platinum lining if you look hard enough.  

That situation/conversation is odd.  Why would she post on two boards and then come back with that reply.  I would like to know who she is, it peaked my curiosity.  Thanks for considering.

And what did you do with AF? Lmao

That was actually a well written, well thought out post, that I completely agree with. Kudos.