Well I have had this happen to a few guys ... mostly when I want them to do it on webcam tho.. for some reason the digital dont freak em out like being live lol.. I just keep on a trying.. and have fun anyway .

Was a real downer for me - even after 20+ years in and out of the hobby.  I loved the adrenaline rush of seeing someone new and doing something erotic and adventurous, but the adrenaline and performance don't seem to go together in my body.  Alcohol helped sometime - but was far from ideal and was unpredictable.  However, of all the things I have tried, viagra works the best.  It has never failed in fact. I suppose that could be mental but I doubt it.  The little blue pill lets me have my adrenaline rush and still perform.  Now if I was just 25 again ....