Sorry I was vague before.  All the M & G's I host are private, as there is a detailed invite list and only ones cleared are allowed to enter.  

What I was referring to was, a M&G or a private small party at a private home which would be limited in number. There is not much room and only people who are personally known are invited which should be understandable. That is where the feelings get hurt and I should not have mentioned it here on this public board.  My mistake, and I am sorry to have brought it up.

I shall tuck my head and crawl back into my doghouse, er, cat house/pen!