I am thinking of treating myself to an overnight. I would like some advice from guys in the hobby that have done an overnight. Also, would like to hear from ladies that have enjoyed overnights. What makes a good night? As another option, why not have a 2 or 4 hour date at night and then another date in the morning?
is that silly to split it up? I am not new to the hobby, but the longest incall i have had was 2 hours.  

thanks to any one that answers!!

The good:
Slower pace
Able to share bottle of wine, dinner, movie, etc
Can actually cuddle up post coital and relax and sleep
Can wake each other up in very intimate ways
Morning sex
Bathing or showering with sex
If she has a friend stop by to party
Having time to just enjoy each other

The bad:
Cost can be brutal, especially if you think in terms of cost per active hour
Stuck with texting junkie
You don't connect
She is not into the fantasy you are trying to create
The morning departure, especially if you do connect.

I used to do an overnite every month.  My opinion with an ATF they are incredible.  Budget just doesn't swing it anymore but there is nothing better if you have a lady that you connect with

I love overnight because sex at night at early morning sex all 24 Hrs...

I think is best GFE experience ..like the Advicer said ..

Wine ..cuddle...sex ...sex...and more sex ..lol i am getting horny now ..lol

I hope you all Girls having fun with Overnights ..

Have fun Friend.

Whats really going to happen is that you're going to sleep half of the time.  If you have a standard sleep schedule -- you'll make it like what? -- until 3am max before the weight of needing to sleep sets in (especially after spilling 2-3 cups by that time)

Given the premium price of provider overnights (what is it ... like 1200 bucks?) -- I would say its way more cost effective to get a sugar baby to chill overnight with...even via a short term arrangement.  It's a little more harder work upfront to find someone but it's way more personal .... plus she is more likely to hang out for breakfast and even give another go-away quickie before she leaves in the AM (and for a fraction of the cost).

just my 2c -- only way i would book a provider for an overnight is if we already had a killer connection and were sort of friends already -- i would never book someone Ive never seen before at such a premium

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I'll throw in with the assertion that overnights need to be with someone you've already connected strongly with.

I've only done what I would call "natural" overnights: an ATF and I go out to dinner, head back to the house to play, sleep when it's late enough, and wake up to more fun... and perhaps on to brunch. I'v never payed for the "overnight" per se, just for the "play" elements after dinner and upon waking (or whatever).

It's certainly worth doing as a test-run of a girl as a travel companion.

I've certainly had dates "divided" by a night; I have an UTR ballet dancer "friend" who I see at a nice hotel; I'll get the room, we'll do our thing for a couple of hours, then both leave to go about our days (we usually meet in the afternoon), and then we'll have another 1-2 hours in the morning before check-out (might as well maximize use of the room!) That's actually nicer sometimes that having to share a bed with a 19 year old who will want to oversleep in the morning

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I just want to ask for clarification: "It's certainly worth doing as a test-run of a girl as a travel companion. " What is worth doing as a test run? Having a "natural" overnight with a provider where she provides for most of her stay, yet you don't pay her the  overnight rate? No disrespect. I'm just wondering. But I do see where you said you pay for the play elements after dinner AND upon waking.

Imagine the potential disaster of traveling - especially internationally, or in a confined environment like a resort or yacht - with someone you've really only had *sex* with. It's so easy to connect in one dimension (sexually, for example), yet have little in common elsewhere. I'm sure I'm not the first person who's experienced a girl who was blazing hot in bed but who otherwise lacks interests or can't carry a conversation. It's nice to have at least a day and night together to see how you "click" outside of the bedroom.

As for overnight rates - no, it's just bad pricing. It's not just an escort thing, either - I remember back 25 years ago, I had a guy driving in from North Carolina to repair a specialized piece of scientific equipment; when he presented the bill, he tried to apply his hourly rate (which was $120/hour or so) to his drive time as well... I don't think so! I pay for work, not rest or travel. That said, I've only spent nights with girls I had a regular thing with and a good connection, so it was more of a "hanging out because it's fun" thing with a bit of "compensated mmm-hmmm" added.

I'm not denigrating overnights as a package; it's just not my preference.

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I haven't had an overnight in a number of years (SO would likely object) but when I did it was strictly GFE.

My first was with someone I'd seen almost monthly so she was comfortable enough with me that she was not opposed to the idea of driving well outside the Perimeter, but only if she was promised 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep. She gave a small discount off her hourly rate x 12 hrs and I didn't bat a eye. That helped later.

She arrived at my place, offered her a drink but she wanted a shower and 'help'. That led to fun, a second shower, then dinner where Freshly F'd us drew attention, rented a couple of movies and she laughed before showing me how ludicrous the X Rated one was. Cuddles til we feel asleep, then awoke to morning BJ before my OJ. Cooked breakfast together, enjoyed it before a last tryst. She stayed much longer than scheduled but that was her tip to me. She thought I'd balk at the price. We did a few more overnights at a lower rate, but never 'free'.

Many ladies offer overnights now but I'm past that now, unless SO suddenly changes lots of things. A man can dream, and reminisce.  

If You have a regular in mind, and price is no object. Go For It!

Play Safe, Have Fun. ga_kos

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she snores  or grunts in her sleep
looks like hell in the morning before her makeup and hair is done
farts in her sleep

one of my specialties then if I may chime in I do love the overnights because there is no rush and we get to know each other, laugh, fuck, cuddle, eat, fuck, sleep (some) fuck, laugh, kiss, fuck, cuddle, fuck.... then we may be hungry again lol but I do love breakfast in bed to be followed by a morning protein shake hahaha!!
I don't see anything wrong with splitting the time up either. I do have to know someone to do an overnight because I want to know we will click
Hugs and kisses
TL

WOW! your reviews and photos are fantastic.
you seem like a very special lady!!

unfortunately without a huge birthday discount, I would never be able to meet you.

thanks for responding to my thread. All the advice and tips are welcome from fellow hobbyist and ladies!

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With girls in the hobby it feels like true love-- without the complications.  I've never done an overnight, but have done extended  time.  More time to get better acquainted starts to feel like the complications-- life issues come up.  As Kristofferson  said, the loving is easy; it's the living that's hard.  With only an hour or 90 minute appointment, it's difficult enough to leave a beautiful woman I've shared intimacies with; I've fallen in love multiple times-- all with no complications!  I'd like to keep it that way.  I have a GF to talk about retirement plans, family issues, and all the general topics of life with-- the sex isn't as hot, but it is comfortable.

You can get up to $160k in some countires......
http://www.popsci.com/technology/article/2013-08/which-organs-can-i-live-without-and-how-much-cash-can-i-get-them

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I recently found myself in the same scenario wondering whether or not to take the "plunge", okay, spend the $$ for an extended (12 hours) and/or an overnight...  Here's my 2 cents..  

As others have said... It really should be with someone you've seen before and have made a solid connection.  There is a hell of a lot of difference between 2-3 hours of private time and staying with someone for 12 hours or overnight.  Do your research and invest a little upfront in the shorter time frame to make sure it is someone you really would like to be around for an extended period of time.  

My two quick scenario's (yes I've done a 2nd one since the 1st one if that says anything) and yes I would repeat both especially the 2nd one..  I had already seen both ladies for a multi hour visit prior to doing the extended.  

1st - Was more of a concert/dinner/date followed up with private time back in the suite.  This provider doesn't do overnight and is clear about not waking up in your arms the next morning, but I knew that going in.  We had a fantastic time both in public and in private.  Cost is there, but it worked for me and all of the time was spent awake and enjoying each other.  

2nd - This was a true overnight and I loved every minute of it as we never left the room..Her choice.. I offered, she would have none of it..   It was non-stop all night and we never even dozed off.  I honestly didn't realize I had it in me...  Again, not inexpensive, but there was no time spent sleeping with this one (this is not the norm by the way, most ladies will build in a certain amount of sleep time and I get that)..  The trade off... Due to some work related issues the following day, I wound up being up 40 hours straight before I got some sleep.. that hurt, but I'd do it again tomorrow...  

Hope it helps...

I have a few overnights every month and I love them! Since I've been in the business, I've had several weekly encounters. This past Memorial Day Weekend I traveled to a 5 star resort with a fellla whom I had never met to spend a long weekend.  When I researched him with several references I asked them specially would they have any concerns with spending a weekend with him and after receiving exceptional responses along with 2 months of email correspondence,  I made the trip. I'm glad I did.  

We spent 3 days basking in the south Florida Gulf Sun while connecting on many levels,  followed nightly by dinner and a few romps in the hay before each of us were completely toast and physically satisfied.  We connected mentally and emotionally throughout the day and physically at night. It was really another phenomenal experience for me and I'm certain him as well.  Each overnight/travel experience  is different based on the needs and desires of each fella. I've had overnights where 90% of the 12 hours has been physically active. I've also had overnights where after several hours of deep conversation and a few romps in the hay within an hour, we would hold each other til the morning event. No matter what the encounter upheld, it's been perfect each and every time.  

Costly for the fellas? I guess that would be in the eye of each beholder. I could almost bet you that everyone that has stayed a night or a few with me, they think it's all been worth the cost. Just confident we always have fun. I'm sure if one goes into the situation with the only expectation is to have fun, it'll end up being hot and great memory to always look back on with horny thoughts no matter what.

I am in South Florida now on a 10 day trip with a fella. It's hot in every kind-o-way

GK

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This is going to depend a lot on what type of client you are and what type of provider she is.  Are you  going to fuck for 8-12 hours straight, can you?  Is she a fucker or a sleeper?  I think this is the biggest single piece of chemistry to get straightened out.

If you feel compelled to go on a date and/or bring a bottle of alcohol, and look forward to sexless cuddling, then you want a sleeper.  If you expect to take refraction naps, for 30 min to an hour and go at it, and expect her to wake up and fuck, then get a fucker.  Reviews help here, and you will need to feel her out in email and probably a phone call or two (if you're worried about personality, just hearing her voice can get you a lot of information).  Personally, I send an email with a list of things we might get to, and I expect no reservations or refusals from the girl, if she's not into what I want to do, then I know I'm not down for 8 hours of paying her to enjoy herself.  AND THIS IS THE KEY, she is a service provider (not a girl friend, that's why it's GFE and not GF), if YOU are having fun, then everything will be a success, so worry about you.  If YOU have a great time, you may miss the money, but will be glad you spent it, and you will write a great review, win-win; if you worry about HER, then you run the risk of having an ok time, you may begrudge the money, and you may not recommend it.  So PLAN your overnight, share your plan with her, and get comfortable that she is going to make it happen.

Both of my overnights were sight unseen, but both ladies had exceptional reviews.  The first one was a half day, I told her I expected lots of "unnatural sex", dinner, and sight seeing, which she all agreed to.  She was awesome, BUT she was a heavy sleeper, and sleep she did.  No 4 am wake up fuckee/suckee in the dark, she slept till 9:30am!  However, the two times we went at it were intense, I assure you, I got my money's worth, because I took care of ME.  The second, was an 8ish hour show up at 9pm leave at 6am deal.  She was all about getting my nut out, and she never hit REM sleep.  Every time I woke from my dozing, she was on the stick (think 4 or 5 times).  We slept with the lights on.  Unfortunately, a miscommunication led to an upsell situation, which I was not prepared for, my fault, I didn't get specific enough.  So my suggestion is to be specific.  

And important to note, neither girl had native english, finding shit to talk about was not on the agenda; obviously the first date involved much more communication and she was fluent, but I was after fuckers, and I got fuckers (the sleeper made up for it when she was awake), and had a great time both times.  I don't even miss my money!  Personally, I think if you are a cuddler/bartender you have a more difficult situation, because that kind of chemistry and personality is harder to match with out a prior meeting/connection.  Also, in that situation you won't be measuring success in acts completed, which I think makes it harder to decide if you regret the cost . . . I know I would have trouble paying for downtime, cause that's money I could have spent on another girl.  I think it would help if there was something special about the provider (race, looks, kinkiness, flexibility, body type), at least then, if it is only an ok time, you can still tick something off your bucket list to make the event a win.

Practical advice: unless she has a special fuck lair (or you are in a dirty hotel) have her come to your hotel, it's cleaner and plenty of clean linens.  Bring your phone and a charger so you can set an alarm to remind you to fuck (you don't want to really fall asleep and waste an opportunity).  Bring a video camera, if she's ok with that.  Bring porn, lots of porn and a computer to watch it on and an HDMI cable in case you can play it on the TV.  Have her bring toys.  Bring a sex position guide, and try some out; once you're on round three, it will take a while, might as well have fun trying out new positions (a guide is a helpful reminder).  Get plenty of water and ice, you need to stay hydrated; seriously, not having enough liquid in you after round one means you may nut a single drop in round three.  Don't overfill the tub, two people in a tub and all you really need is like two or three warm cups of water and the tub is full, keep the water level low.

Goodluck!

wow!! now that was a lot of good advice. Thanks!! Are any of those ladies here in Atlanta?

Thanks for the insights, I recently ran into the hydration factor, it's important even on one hour dates

Sorry, both girls are on the other side of the world.

I am currently without VIP, so I can't PM, but I will say the only girl I'm currently considering doing an overnight with does regularly visit Atlanta; her name is Asian Bea.  She's a fucker, in fact she fucked me more in two one hour sessions than I normally get in 6-7 sessions; she doesn't give breaks, and it is non-stop (she's also cool with the camera).  She's a 20 year old, 72lb, 4'9 Filipina spiner that is very flexible   I saw a review on her from a guy that did do an overnight with her, and his comment was that she was at him most of the night, and all the next morning (So she has overnight experience, and is known to go at it all night) .  

She's also a nice girl.  I doubt I have anything in common with her, but we didn't talk much  In point of fact, I am working towards getting back some of my stamina, because she is truly relentless, and if I were to go more than 2 hours with her, I could not do it in my current condition; so I will literally have to drop 50lbs, before I think I could handle her.  But I have been constructing a plan for an overnight with her, and believe me, I would print out an hour by hour agenda so I didn't miss any opportunities.

Her site says she's also flexible on amount for longer dates, depending on how cool the location is, but I don't have that kind of freedom. . . maybe you do.

Lol do not do that because I need you live my lover for more and more sex and love ..lol  
But when you want to do it please do it in right way ....lol and make sure. The doctor is good ..: