to the much-debated "quickie" or "15" minute session?

Or are you spending time chatting, etc, to build the girlfriend experience?  The ladies charge for time more so than for sex.  Whether the time is spent pounding out stud-style or just having someone listen to you, that's the commodity truly being traded.

I'm using an alias because this is embarrassing.

I'm sure I've been called a "quick pop" in the hobby. And at this stage of my life, I'm one pop.
I can also assure you there have been times that providers had to say that's the easiest 300 (or whatever the rate was )they ever made. I usually can't last past a few minutes of oral and have popped a few times as the lady was opening the condom. You get the picture.

Anyway, I'm wondering why should I pay the same amount as those studs that wear the ladies out for 20 - 30 minutes. You've read the reviews (and of course I doubt some of them) where they come 2 or 3 times and pound the lady for long periods of time before they cum.

Is that a fair question ?

Usually I'll go see a 15 minute girl before going to see a girl for an hr session. Or you could skip the 15 minute girl and just self drain your nuts yourself.

oral for the last 15 minuets.  You are never to old to explore the female form and enjoy DATY...IMHO

try senual massage and light conversation at first, then explore your providers body (DATY or use toys on her)then as Santin said save the last 15min for your pop

The Donation isn't for what you do within the session but for the time you spend with the lady.
If you have a difficulty with what happens within the session then you should choose a half hour or a 15 minute session.
Just My .02

I didn't mean to hit a nerve.

I do appreciate the posts from others, they did offer good advice.

Also, I posted this on the general discussion board. A provider there responded that they spend the same time screening, same time getting ready, etc.

I appreciate that from her, showing a provider's perspective that , quite frankly, I had not thought of.

if you have good references I'm sure we can work something out.

First of all when will you guys understand that your donation is for time spent, not how long you last!!!! Your right maybe the other fellas do bang hard for 20 mins, but they also stay another hour chatting and cuddling or what not. If you knew from the beginning of your hobby life that ya just didnt have it in ya...Why didnt you initially search for a provider that want charge you that much????  You guys kill me wanting top dollar escorts at street hoe value...regardless of whether or not your manhood can handle it!!!! No one forced you to pay those girls 300....Im sure you called everyone of them and offered that money yourself!!!! I suggest you find one of the piss-poor 15 min review girls here if the dollar is now that big of a deal to you!!!!

Think about the easiest money you've made the last year.

Then send me a message.

Think about it.

Everything you posted was accurate, but "could" be interpretted as a bit harsh.  No argument about the donation being for time, because if it wasn't, well - that would just be illegal (wink).  Your suggestion of finding a "pis-poor 15 min review girl" was IMHO, a bit over the top.  The OP stated he was embarrassed, he even qualified his post with the question if his thinking was fair.  It is humbling to admit that one is not a marathon, multi-round stud - and yes, I would know.

To the OP - consider the lady - she hopefully takes some time primiping and such. She blocks out time that could be spent seeing a guy that is interested in a longer session.  Whether she has or does not have such a client at that time is of no consequence, she still is making herself unavailable for other guys - and if it is incall, her rent is fixed no matter how long the guy stays.

Lastly, I think others have given you some great input - enjoy massage, conversation and reciprocation / appreciation of the female form - you might be pleasantly surprised at your own performance if you focus on other activities beyond the pop.

Spoken like a true street ho. "Your right' (punctuation). "ya' , 'ya' , 'provider that want charge....'
Give the guy a break , he's asking for friendly advice and you tore him a new a__whole!!
Sheesh !!

A sparkling personality might be extra.  Just because it's candy doesn't mean it's sweet.

DAMN!  LOOKOUT!  INCOMING!!!!!!

Sorry if it came across that I was looking for a discount.....not my intention.

I just found it ironic that a provider I've seen responded. She is very much aware of my "quick pop" tendencies. My comment about easy money was inappropiate and shouldn't have been made.

Congrats on your most recent appoinment. I'd love to have an encounter where 30 minutes were spent on the juicy details. That sounds like an helluva experience. Unfortunately, most of my hour long appointments are maybe 15 minutes or so of the juicy details. I'm not blaming anybody but myself.

I've probably said too much on the subject and should just fade away and lurk.

Take it easy. He asked a question in an orderly manner. No need to get all riled up. Be polite in your answer.

and someones feelings get hurt....

I just saw my long time friend. I first met him over a year ago and I've seen him several times. He's never reviewed me so taking a look at my profile to see if you can guess who it is won't work...lol.

He's a great guy. From what I can tell by following the thread posted in the past, most of you guys like him too (and the girls). I think a lot of ya'll have met him at the M&G's.

He see's seen a lot of high end gorgeous ladies. Kinda makes me wonder..."what in the hell does he see in me?" lol.

Anyway, I just wanted to say that he's cool...

In this economy, why by a gallon of milk when you only need a quart?

A lot of guys have this same need. Great guys not just cheap ass low lifes.

So "Mike" anytime you're in the neighborhood just let me know.

Have a great night!

Stephanie

15 minutes. No more no less...lol.

I don't usually offer that but I think I'm gonna give it some thought



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