Stuck in office this afternoon. Always dangerous for me to have time to let my mind wander.

Thought occurred, who really gets a better feeling from sex....men or women. I guess unless you've had a sex change operation it may be impossible to answer.

I can vouch for men, it's pretty damned incredible. I have no idea what it feels like for the lady. I've seen some that really seem to enjoy it. Some that are probably good actresses. And some that weren't , LOL.

Of course on a larger scale, men are willing to pay for it. (We're just paying for time, I get that).

Just curious.

OL!  

Seriously though, that's the best analogy I have to explain how sex feels to a woman. I guess it feels equally great to men and women both, or we wouldn't have made it to here

xoxo
Cayle

Great analogy, never looked at it that way. At least in the civi world, it seems like the male is usually the aggressor, though. Or maybe I just hang with the wrong civi females.

Thanks, Caylee

Intercourse (vaginal or anal as your preference allows). Oral on the other hand is significantly more intense physically for the receiver I would think. Now there is a significant mental level of pleasure for this givers who are really into it (I know there is for me). But to me that's two different kinds of "highs".  

In some ways 69 might be the best of both worlds as there is both physical and mental stimulation occurring  simultaneously. Although personally I can find it hard to concentrate on the task at hand if the other is acknowledged expert. (Case and point Caylee, among others 😇).  
T

It depends on how good in bed the guy or woman is, if the guy sucks at giving oral, then it's not going to be as good for her.
But overall I would have to say sex is better for woman, just think about this, the clit is made for pleasure and has about 8k nerve endings compared to a guys dick with about 4k.
So find that cute little pink pearl and start kissing/licking it   :

I can't speak for the girls, but for me...
On a scale from 1 to 10 it's a 147.2.
Good beer only rates a 12 on a 10 point scale (just for perspective).

Who's taking the tally?

I love the fact that during oral you get pleasure from giving pleasure. The look on his face, the way his body moves every time I do something new is enough to get my juices going. I wonder if you guys feel the same way ?

Why just in bed?

I love doing it anywhere - the beach, a field, the car sed to be a pretty good place too, when I was a teenager. In fact, the bed is most probably the worst place to be good at it.

My 2 cents.

Of course, the range of activities comprising "sex" is stunningly broad, but I assume we're talking about the stuff that's 99% of the activity.

I think guys come out of the egg knowing that penile friction feels good.  Add warm and wet - then it goes to great.  While we certainly enjoy ancillary activities, the seat of our response is the dick.  All-in-all, we're about as hard an equation to solve as 1 + 1 = ?

Then there are women, who are walking differential equations.  Clearly, for most the clitoris (the full structure, not just the pearl) is response central.  However, the range and intensity of that response is really broad.  Plus, to varying degrees their whole body is an erogenous zone, including some who can have non-genital orgasms.  And I've known women who had been married for years and had never had a real orgasm; but, once they learned how, could achieve multiples.  (Would love to send a video to those poke-n-pump ex-husbands!)

So to me, guys fall into a narrower bandwidth than the ladies, in general.  Like the above comment on 69, I know that the best intercourse for me has always been when the two of us are sensing and responding to the other - and to me that's what makes the feeling ever better for both of us.

I knew it was about the nerve endings. Had no idea women had twice as many.

Speaking as a man (or a ventriloquist)... Tactical and tactile satisfaction are a given. The old saying that "sex is like pizza... even when it's bad, it's still pretty good."  
However, supplying satisfaction to your partner provides the long-term memories that are relished and relived well beyond the climax of a session. The exploration, adventure, and challenge that is the female form makes this hobby as gratifying as any.

Thanks, Ladies!

As the old cliche goes, the worst BJ I ever got still felt pretty good.

I think there's a bit of chemistry involved as well. Our ATF is that because the sex was that damned good for us. Sometimes your ATF will call you because the sex was that damned good for them as well. Regardless of P4P or not, a partner you can relax with and let it all go is 'beyond words' good sex.  

Still, sex with a new dance partner has its thrills as well - if you can both relax a bit.

Overall, I say in the Hobby, I think it's a toss up. Men require less stimulus to orgasm, but we do have a plethora of partner options. Women get the extra benefits of more genital nerve stimulation (clit orgasms, nipple orgasms, Gspot, etc) but may have a more challenging time relaxing with new clients (depending on her experience and confidence & his ability to put her at ease). Then there's the aspect of threesomes. I've watched my SO with a provider and they both got tremendous amounts of pleasure from things as simple as hair brushing and mutual touching.

Women for the win?

Happy Friday Morning,
ga_kosh

 

After watching enough of Monday night's "dumbate" (20 minutes),  there has to be an alternative to the eviler of two lesses. Who is this candidate you have been stumping for?

Is there someplace we can find the platform for Mr. Ron Srealm? Surely, he or Jimmy Neutron would affect more positive change than the two muons from Monday night.  

I am amped up to support him. What is his slogan?  
Providing America more Potential?  
Power to the People?

Elect Ron Srealm...
or anybody els

Thank you my friend for the vote of confidence...  er desperation...  um insanity?..

No politics for me.  I prefer to rule the old fashioned way.  The honest way.  The age old way of tradition...  I aspire to dominate the world through my fembot army.  When I get around to it that is.  It's on my list.  Seriously. And also provided that Koshie doesn't beat me to it first.  

Politics is too savage and despicable for me.  I'll gladly orchestrate the crushing of the human spirit and free will under stylish fembot heels - but I won't lie to you while I'm doing it.  That would just be mean.

My motto you ask?
Never trust an atom (or a politician) - they make up everything.

PS:  Koshie if you achieve world domination first, please honor this request from an old friend - If I have to go make it quick.  Or better yet give me that bootybot prototype you've been working on.  

Now that's the way to go.

Booyah.

Ron Jeremy is my pick. Since we're gonna get fucked anyway, might as well get fucked by a pro.  That's his platform!

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