We should all treat ourselves to a Fathers Day tryst with one of the lovely ladies of ATL!! Oh yea!!

work on her Daddy Issues..

If a hobbyist is single, then he can do anything he desires. But, if he is married and especially if he has children, then he needs to be faithful to the mother or get a divorce and pursue other women. I am single with no children and can do anything with women I desire. But, if I were married, then I would not pursue other women, especially if I had children. I have never responded to a post on this forum before, but this "ticked me off" and  I am not the type to set idly by and let someone make comments that are this ridiculous. I am very respectful to other people and to myself, but when someone makes a comment that goes against my beliefs then I am going to "stand up" and voice my opinion. I would make my opinion on this topic in church or on national television, but would the original poster on this forum do it? I DOUBT IT!!!!

The majority of men in the hobby do not pursue women but rather sex with women. I don't know how paying for an hour of a womans time would diminish how a man treats or loves his family. You may be surprised who may engage in. The hobby, maybe even your minister?

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I'm afraid most providers would starve to death.

I'm sure seeing providers has saved a lot of marriages.

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The providers would have to find a other line of work. I am happy  being a pervert and a male whore.

Sounds to me like someone has a guilty conscious and  is trying to justify his behavior. First, all providers are someone else's children. They may have been forced into this lifestyle for reasons that are not known  to the hobbyist. I can't say that I would not do this because I have not been in their situation. A person must do what they can do to survive, but it does not mean that it is right. Providers are people just like you and I and are not simply a "piece of meat", but a human being who has feelings.  

Let me pose several questions and/or scenarios about this topic. First, if it is only about buying sex, then I suppose it would be alright if your wife( I take it you are married) was to have an affair on you. Or, you could talk to her and determine a fair price for her services and thus share her with your fellow hobbyists!! "What's good for the goose is good for the gander."

Second, how would you feel if your daddy exhibited this behavior toward your mother? I will tell you from a personal perspective that it "sucks" and can lead to resentment from the children toward their father. Thus, there is a total breakdown of the family structure and could lead the demise of their children later on in life. What MAN would risk losing any respect from the children he sired for a few minutes of pleasure from a woman that he is simply using for sex? Only a man that does not care about his family in the first place!!!!!

Finally, how would you feel if  you had a daughter that pursued a career  in the "business"? If it is simply about buying sex then it would be alright if your daughter does the same. According to you it is no big deal, so , why don't you share your daughter (if you have one) with your fellow hobbyists? I know I wouldn't want my daughter doing it, but I guess it is alright with you!!!

HAVE A GREAT DAY AND GOD BLES

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Your response is very wordy and seems to come from a place of powerlessness and victemhood. I assume you are a woman?  I say this because you state the women maybe forced to do this and you bring up she has "feelings" and you don't think she. Should be treated like a "piece of meat", etc. Etc.  

You are correct that there is a certain amount of discretion about the hobby but I contend it is about respecting the wife and not rubbing her nose in it. Again nobody goes into the hobby to get a girlfriend or have an affair.  The $$$ is to keep the feelings out of it.  

I don't know if my "daddy" engaged with providers or not. Frankly that would not be my business. I have a feeling you think your daddy did consort with prostitutes the way you  
frased that sentence.  

Last paragraph about how I would feel if my daughter wanted to pursue a career in the sex trade. I must admit that I have a double standard about what I want for my girls. Hopefully, I have set them up to make good life choices. If one chose to go into it I would suggest good financial consuling and conducted herself with professionalism.  

Thanks for your thoughts.

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So, uh, you are posting on this forum and judging others.  Yup, 'nuff said

 

...narrow-minded, overcritical, self-righteous drivel. You're passing judgement on people knowing nothing about them or their situations. I try very hard to not be judgmental, so I'll bite my tongue.

Secondly, the ladies that I've met through the hobby have ALL been intelligent, respectful, kind and generous. Some of the nicest people that you could ever hope to meet! If my daughter were to be like them, no matter the profession she chooses, I would be VERY PROUD of her!

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Let them have a moment to vent it's probably a daughter of a husband who got caught.  As everyone said no one is looking for a relationship,  just something we can't get at home. Everything is perfect but the sex life and men need sex

Best wishes  
J

Scream "oh gawd" during orgasm.  
I am not interested in your morals, your belief in spousal relations, child raising, or religion.  Especially by your own statements you haven't been married, raised kids, or dealt with long term relationships.  That my friend is the definition of being a hypocrite.  

So take your theory and go beat off in your church praising god and planning on how to dredge sinners thru the muck of righteous stigma.  

The message of Jesus was about love, acceptance, and forgiveness.  Satan, the great manipulator, twist gods words to confound humanity away from these principles.  I believe most churches, with their intolerance of others and self supremacy of righteousness are simple puppets of Satan.  So begone foul beast, begone

I would rather spend an hour sharing the wonder of human sexuality with the many kind and generous women of this community then suffer thru any of your inaccurate moralizing

Just saying

The comment "I'm single and can do what I want with women..."

Do a little scriptural research on that thought.  When you are done, do some on how God categorizes sin and sinners.  (BTW, how GOD categorizes, not priests categorize).  

Then when you are done removing the plank from your eye, worry about the speck in others.  

Until then, quit making Christians look like dumbasses please.  We get enough bad press.

As per Ghandi "Christianity would be wonderful if it weren't for all the christians!" or another quote from whom I can not recall.  "Christianity sounds wonderful, someone should try it!"

Wrong board, the self-righteous board is listed under general dumbassery