OK, I'm on a roll this week so why not start another thread and see if we get any response.

Some guy is into race play and he takes a ton of shit for demeaning, racist, hitler etc.  

What's up with spitting on each other?  I absolutely hate that.  If you are spitting because you are into playing a role and demeaning the other person...OK, as long as you both are ok with it, have fun.  But for me, it's just offensive.

If you want to provide pleasure, use your tongue.  If you want to provide lubricity, but don't want to put your tongue there (No such place exists on a woman for me) use lube.  If you want lubricity but don't have lube and won't put your tongue there...damn, I don't know, GIVE UP.

But I have noticed a trend on porn and on boards and even in a session or two where spitting is the norm.  On their pussy, ass, cock, face/mouth.....  Personally I HATE it.  There is no intimacy, provides no pleasure and is commonly referred to as one of the most divisive and dismissive gesture one can make.

Make no mistake, I'm not prude, quite the opposite...and again I say if both parties are into it...
But damn, the whole appeal escapes me.

 
Am I alone in this?

I'd rather lick and suck my spit than lube......  just saying

Just LICK her?  Then she has some fun too.  And if you won't lick it...should you stick it?  LOL

The taste honey

It's awfully common; it's not in the least meant to demean, it's fairly frequent from men and women and done in a sexual context partly for lubrication partly for pleasure.  It's mentioned in a big percentage of TER reviews and a lot of  guys perceive it as ***totally hot or a show of enthusiasm*** or that the girl is into it when they receive a blow job; or when guys do it DATY, and it is.

And Joi makes another  good point--to a lot of women it tastes better than lube.

But if you don't want it done (like anything else), just tell your partner.

All good thoughts...and I do communicate to those I'm with.  I get the taste issue I guess...and like I said, I don't care if others are into it.  Believe me, I have things I like that I am sure aren't understood by others, but  I guess it just totally flies by me as far as any sensuality or excitement.  

oh well, C'est LaVie

Definitely feeling you!

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The op is a wimp.

I like getting things wet naturally, don't get me wrong. BUT the deliberate spit, I HATE!!!  
It feels degrading to me.