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If you're going to be there for one night, expecting to get any action, the chances are very high that nothing will happen.

As a general rule, single guys are saddled with the burden of being a creep, whether they are or not.  It takes time and a few visits for couples to notice you, to get to know you, and then think about having any kind of "fun".  

I have found that in the swinging lifestyle, the nicer guys to tend to go farther and finish in a better place than the actual creeps, but trust and understanding has to be built first.  And the best advice I can say is to go, expecting nothing at all, and to not even hope of getting lucky.  I'd say your chances are probably pretty slim, however.  If the club has a message board, it's a good idea to get on that board, and chat up a few folks.  At the very least, you'll have some fun conversation if you meet up with some of the chatters

Trapeze is a really FUN & eXXXciting place to go especially with an open lady (not JUST a provider) who understands the swinging lifestyle. Swinging is NOT the same as hobbying AT ALL and can get you in just as much drama as it can pleasure with the wrong person(s). Your lady MUST without hesitation be able to hold the comfort factor for the both of you. Everything that happens will be based around the ladies wants/desires to please YOU!  

I personally visit a Private Swinging Ranch in SC with a Gent friend who has searched years for the right person. No one else he ever took was totally comfortable. We have been every month for almost a year now and although it's a small place it's still fun.  

As for Trapeze, I have been with a Hobbyist who was much older than you Case and he had his world rocked. We went as a couple and instead of going straight back we hung out on the dance floor and had a few cocktails to loosen him up. He stood and I danced for a while with/on him. When his smile was bigger than ever and he was moving a bit is when I knew he was relaxed enough and took him to the back. Once changed we met in the jacuzzis and soon after a couple joined us. I immediately kissed the lady/wife bc we had made eye contact and were both smiling so I knew it was okay. From there things were nothing but hot and we made several friends that evening.  

Usually you find your comfort place and chill in that area but occasionally you might want to browse around like in a supermarket, hand out a lil touch here and there and maybe slip a cover on more times in one night than you ever have! Definitely NOT for ladies who crave or want the attention all for themselves. This is a place for REAL Pleasers!