I'm curious as to see for the hobbyist - what makes you want to pick up your phone and dial for a provider?    Is it the reviews , her photos  or her site ? Is it the way she speaks on the phone or types? What are your favorite things to see from a provider before seeing her ??

Ladies - what is your favorite part of marketing ? (My favorite is the photographs ! ). Is it the site , photographs and so on !  

Thanks for reading !!

 Xoxo alana grey !

What do you guys think of all the selfies? I like professional photo shoots but selfies are certainly easier and cheaper. Id like to know what grabs the Guys attention.
Christina

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From my last post I've seen - it was both. Mixtures are best ! Are you in atlanta by the way ??

Hey Guys, I'm sure some of you have seen my new Ad. So what do you like about it? What don't you like? How could it be improved?
Thanks
Christina

I can think of one tall busty blonde in town that does a great job of incorporating sexy selfies on her Twitter account.

The great motivators...

Good pics - of course, selfies and pro shots are critical.  I know I posted on your earlier thread but selfies and pro shots both have their place, so take lots of pics.  And smile.  A well written ad with good grammar will take you far.  Also good reviews that align with my interests are important.

But the real motivator for me personally is attitude, politeness, and enthusiasm.  Does a lady interact well with me before a date?  Does she act playful, interested, seductive, and does she have a good sense of humor?

I'm still surprised to see ladies not acknowledging a nice compliment on the boards.  I suppose some ladies don't ever come back to see if there were replies, but it would be gracious and kind to say "thank you" occasionally.  Ladies, if a gent were to give you a compliment in the real world, you would acknowledge it - wouldn't you?  I don't know why it would be any different in the virtual world.  Little things mean a lot.  Especially in this business.

Always remember your board posts and ads are a virtual representation of you.  If someone posts a kind, appreciative, or supportive comment, it would be nice to receive a "thank you".  If a lady doesn't respond to a nice email or post I assume that she is not interested or too busy to see me as a client.  Being polite and kind makes you approachable.  And approachable ladies get approached.  Seems simple enough doesn't it?  Politeness isn't a cure for everything, but it is a nice start.

Sometimes great things can begin with a simple compliment.  And how you respond to it.

your absolutely correct - attitude gets you far in this business i think. There are women out there that aren't so pleasing to the eye you might say - charge a lot and get lots of clients because I think that their personality is amazing.  

 
Thank you for posting your thoughts ! : )  

You are very welcome young lady.  I appreciate you asking for our opinions - it says good things about you.  And I didn't mean to sound so "get off my lawn!" about it, by the way.  All I meant was - life is full of many little opportunities, some of which start with being thankful for a compliment.

In this business having beauty (and marketing it properly) will get you a first date.  But what gets you a second and a third?  That's an equally important question.  And, in my opinion, the answer is - attitude.  

There's nothing so intriguing as a woman that knows how to please a man in the bedroom and is calmly confident about it.  That look that says "here, let me show you things you never even knew...".  That's sexy.  A woman that gives you everything and leaves you always wanting more - they are a rare and magical breed.  My favorites have always left me a feeling that there are still more things to try (no matter how much we experience together).  That insatiable, curious appetite.  That "next time I see you let's try..." type of personality.  I think that's very hot.

Hehe no problem ! Like I said - I am so new . So new in the industry and behind closed doors so trying new things together is amazing !  I have not had much regulars unfortunately - maybe I need to step it up a bit - be diffrent . Be more adventerous and state sexy things or be more sensual . It's very awesome to have a board where I could hear constructive criticism and talk directly to customers. Thank you !!

My favorite part about marketing is getting to express myself here, in text, or in person at meet and greets.

I think the very best thing about me, and most of the ladies here, is a trait that can't really be captured in photos..  my personality. But I get to express all of that here, and on my website, and at m&g's and I really like that a lot.

Beautiful name by the way
xoxo Taylor

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Well said.  The board is a powerful marketing research tool for those savvy ladies that understand how to use it.  And it's a fun flirty flirty kind of place too.  LOL.

Like any other business - networking, researching, and advertising are all important elements.  You are already onto that, so I would say you are off to a good start.  I'm confident you will find some regular gents.  You seem like a sharp young lady with a good attitude.  It takes a while to build a reputation and collect enough reviews to become a well known, respected provider.  But you will - if you want it enough.  

And participating on the boards is a nice way for guys and girls to get to know you a bit while you are on your rise to fame and fortune.  
 

I suppose I have to thank you now for your kind words lest I be called a hypocrite.  Good grief - what have I started?  Where will the madness end?  Human sacrifice, dogs and cats living together, mass hysteria?

Fine.  Never let it be said I don't obey my own rules...

Thank you kind sir - you are a gentleman and a scholar.

Now move along before some nincompoop tells us to get a room...  Boy, that would be embarassing.

Thank you ms. Morgan !!! I've seen you around - and truely appreciate you commenting on the post !! Isn't it s amazing ! I love this job !!! I just don't know where to get to meet and greets - I'll look for it   thank you -you as well !!

Just keep doing you

Thank you bballs  

The only one I see is P411. It appears to be the same that's been around awhile .

There's a meet and greet a week from now, and since you have reviews, it'll be super easy for you to be screened and invited. There's a post regarding the party just a few threads above. Sunny, the host, is so sweet, so just send her an email with a link to your reviews.

I really hope to see you there

Ohh !Taylor I'd stick out like a sore thumb !I'm an excited little weirdo with an appetite to learn. Thank you

ter reviews at least 10 or 1 from the "right" hobbyist.
photos must be full disclosure
must be interactive on initial email or call

Critique the one you mentioned. The new one is easy to find.  
Thanks HofFer , and the others on this thread it's good info.
Christina

Thank you for the response !  

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