Well this'll help your cause. Wow.
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I've only been in the hobby about 7 weeks now, but prior to getting in, I often browsed BP looking at the ladies and reading profiles but was to nervous to actually meet anyone from on there,mainly because I had never done this before and for fear of LE. I actually got on TER aound a year ago just to see what it was about and same thing read ads and finally contacted a lady and had some conversations but could never go for it,so here I am now and that lady I chatted with a year ago was the one that I chose to take my hobby virginity when I got in recently. I do a lot of reading of reviews on here to and ive seen several where the client has said that the girl in pics was not the one in person and different stories like that but yet they guy stayed anyway [BP ads]. I stay away from BP at all costs even though I did see some well reviewed ladies there when I browsed. I prefer to stay strictly here where the ladies are reviewed and also if they see you they will give references. I also like the fact the ladies ive met have been very nice,easy to talk to and know how to make me feel more comfortable when we meet. I just wanted to say alittle about me so both providers and clients on here know a little something about who ponyman49 is. I am a sinlge white male age 49, well groomed,down to earth type man,trying to make some friends on here and see some ladies when I can and just enjoy the hobby. I'dlike to say thanks for any and all advice that I have or will seek from any of the veteran providers and clients on these boards. thanks to all,ponyman49
Well, things ARE going south around here that's for sure. But not in a good way. Please don't give us Southern Gents a bad rap.
You keep asking for advice on the board. Ok, starting at the top here's mine to you...
Don't argue with a lady. Ever. Ever. Did I say ever? Under any circumstances. Not on general principle, not one you might get into bed with someday, not one that is well connected to a network of savvy providers who constantly share intel amongst themselves, and especially not one who is being kind enough to help you. It's rude, it's unconstructive, and it's ungentlemanly. Besides, no male has ever won an argument with a female since the dawn of time (can I get an amen?). That is a fundamental law of the natural order.
But a true Southern Gentleman would already know that, correct?
So where was I? Oh yeah - piling on... Piling on is highly disrespectful to our community because of the way...
Well, I would like to start off by saying welcome you to the TER community. The boards are helpful and willing to offer you advice on many things. Now the answer that you will get isn't always going to be peaches and cream.
Well the good thing I am going to say is always show respect to a provider or to extend towards anyone. The reason is that the providers on here are in a close network and one bad move you make will spread Like a wildfire. You might be a great and nice guy. I would try to make amends with those that you might of pissed off.
Now, to kinda answer your question, it is really slim picking to find reputable providers down in Clayton county, and surrounding areas. The reason is that there are more potential LE setups in that side of town. Now Henry county isn't a bad area at all. According to some data, they are saying that this is one of the fastest growing area in Georgia. Now if you go to macon and savannah area, there isn't really any talent there except BP girls.
Right now, some of the guy's in the Macon or Savannah area are begging for more established providers to be in these areas. Alot of the hobbyist don't mind traveling to Atlanta, but at the same time, we like to stay in the comfort of our area.
You will definitely get better in the hobby. There are alot of great newbie established providers that would more gladly see you such as I know of. You will have to be screen. My advice is build your reputation among the newbie establish providers to get references and etc..., and then see more established providers. They will not be newbe friendly and slim to none ,you will get to see them. Again, I would definitely hope the best for you in your hobby, and you will have alot of fun just always show respect to them. Now, I am not saying to agree with everything they say but just respect their opinion and you will be fine.
Have fun and be safe.
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Well the good thing I am going to say is always show respect to a provider or to extend towards anyone. The reason is that the providers on here are in a close network and one bad move you make will spread Like a wildfire. You might be a great and nice guy. I would try to make amends with those that you might of pissed off.
Now, to kinda answer your question, it is really slim picking to find reputable providers down in Clayton county, and surrounding areas. The reason is that there are more potential LE setups in that side of town. Now Henry county isn't a bad area at all. According to some data, they are saying that this is one of the fastest growing area in Georgia. Now if you go to macon and savannah area, there isn't really any talent there except BP girls.
Right now, some of the guy's in the Macon or Savannah area are begging for more established providers to be in these areas. Alot of the hobbyist don't mind traveling to Atlanta, but at the same time, we like to stay in the comfort of our area.
You will definitely get better in the hobby. There are alot of great newbie established providers that would more gladly see you such as I know of. You will have to be screen. My advice is build your reputation among the newbie establish providers to get references and etc..., and then see more established providers. They will not be newbe friendly and slim to none ,you will get to see them. Again, I would definitely hope the best for you in your hobby, and you will have alot of fun just always show respect to them. Now, I am not saying to agree with everything they say but just respect their opinion and you will be fine.
Have fun and be safe.
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Thanks man. I definitely appreciate and enjoy your post too.
You're very welcome. I need to stop using that tag line though or bballs is going to sue me for copyright infringement.
bballs you know I luv u bro!
Well, maybe you can share in the profits instead of sue hahahaha lol.
Or it's my attorneys that you will be hearing from. lol
I kind of get this whole "be nice" to providers thing you guys are promoting, but I am the furthest thing from a BSU, and I seem to have plenty of women that for some strange reason still seem to like me. No accounting for taste I suppose.
On a related note, there are some absolute no no's around here, one is reaching out to the ladies and "haggling" with them. I am not one of these "never negotiate" pussies, but haggling is one sure way to get on the "must miss" list of virtually every woman here. Getting defensive is another thing that doesn't go over too well, and it sounds like PM is guilty on both accounts. I have to agree with the advice he got earlier to "slow his roll" step back, take a breath, and try a softer approach.
Gambler, I had no idea you owned the GFY tagline. I am truly envious - you must be drowning in royalty checks.
You won't have any problems with me - I typically don't use that phrase being a TRUE Southern Gentleman and all. Well not in polite company anyway. LOL
I kind of get this whole "be nice" to providers thing you guys are promoting, but I am the furthest thing from a BSU, and I seem to have plenty of women that for some strange reason still seem to like me. No accounting for taste I suppose.
On a related note, there are some absolute no no's around here, one is reaching out to the ladies and "haggling" with them. I am not one of these "never negotiate" pussies, but haggling is one sure way to get on the "must miss" list of virtually every woman here. Getting defensive is another thing that doesn't go over too well, and it sounds like PM is guilty on both accounts. I have to agree with the advice he got earlier to "slow his roll" step back, take a breath, and try a softer approach.
Hey, I need in on your profits Hahaha. I have a small hand in you all success haha lol.
Thank you, bigjoe. I actually live south of Henry county. The point I was trying to make wasn't the miles I will drive to see a lady because that's no problem. I just need to know where I will be going in enough time to get there on time.
I don't even mind getting in the area a little early, just so long I can make my appointment on time. I don't like to be late for anything, but am well aware that anything can happen.
If I get to the area early there are places I can go til time to contact the provider. I know they have other appointments before and or after mine so I do what I have to,to promptly make it on time.
Sometimes messages can get misconstrued and upset people but that is not my goal here, I'm just looking to enjoy the hobby and meet new people.Thanks again for your friendly advice. Its well taken
...has sent me a lot of time-wasting PMs. First to tell me that armpit and leg hair "aren't meant for a woman", also to express that I am too expensive for him, then to ask me if I would arrange for a double at a LOWER rate than my normal individual rate. Huh? You want me to hire another lady to join us for magically lower than my normal rate? For some guy who thinks my body hair is gross? Wow, I really want to get paid WAY LESS than normal to perform for someone who thinks my body is gross and unnatural... NOT!
Gentlemen, I have no problem if you don't enjoy my body hair. I have no problem if my rate is too high for your tastes. When you feel the need to PM me to express that you think my body hair is gross and simultaneously ask for discounts, there is something really wrong with you and how you choose to approach providers
Zoey,that is a straight up lie. im not even interested in a double at this stage,im still new and enjoying one on one a while before indulging in doubles. I said that you are a very beautiful woman but I don't understand the hairy armpits. But to each is own. I don't try and negotiate prices either so stop telling lies on me. I know what im willing to pay and if a provider is over that amount I don't even contact her.
Yes i do. Further more this is the last I will comment on this subject. I have no desire to meet you or Veronica. I know what my type woman is and neither of you fit that description. And just so there is no discrepancy in what I say. I don't like hairy legs or armpit hair on women, that's for men and since you want to be like a man go ahead and grow some facial hair since you like wearing a strap on anyway.
I feel your words and actions have spoken for themselves on this thread. So I agree that there is no further need for commentary.
Smooches~
Zoey
You are no Southern Gentleman. Although you may have had a barn. And possibly even been raised in it.
I've seen all I need to see.
Here is some parting advice...
Treat women (and folks in general) with respect.
It's very bad form to contact a lady and tell her all the things you don't like about her.
It's borderline psychopathic to do it in broad daylight on an internet forum.
I don't often say this but - Seriously dude, wtf?
Good luck finding any future dates.
I think your "I'm really a nice guy" campaign here just imploded. You're an asshat.
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guess you must be a close friend with Victoria or is it veronica and want to bash someone so your points don't fall to low. its all good though. thank you.
P.S I don't like hairy legs and armpits on a woman, I like a nice clean shaven lady, but I do like a bush
I am AN Atlanta native born downtown and lived there as an infant then and since have lived south of the city,so I know what different areas are like. I don't appreciate being told since im on the southside that im in the ghetto,yes there are rough areas on this side but there are on the northside also. I work for a fortune 500 company that has been around for 160 years in 2016, it is the largest company of its kind in the U.S. and third largest in the world. im not bum or sorry piece of shit that cant afford to pay a ladies rate but I do prefer to stay at a certain level. I have met 3 wonderful ladies one twice so far and any of them will tell you that I treated them with the utmost respect during our time together. I wont say which one but we have become friends and text and chat with each other on a regular basis. I may have made some mistakes since ive been on here but im brand new and still learning the ropes, so to any ladies on here that feel I have been rude or what to them then I apologize to you. Now with that said lets stop all this fucked up behavior and trying to hurt people on here. I have been told that this type of shit goes on on here and I see its the truth. Im here to learn about and enjoy this hobby and the lovely ladies that I choose to see. If I pay some ladies a compliment on their beauty or bodies its not done out of respect, there are some very beautiful women on here and whether I see them as a client or not I would like to be a friend or on a friendly basis with each and everyone of you. In my last words here don't bash me and hurt my chances of meeting some nice ladies and don't lie on me either and I will do the same. I do know from now on I will pay closer attention to who I decide to give a compliment to. THanks to the ones that are helping me along here and that's both providers and clients. Happy Easter to all.
Even if you are/were right in any of your many disputes with the different ladies on this thread, you will never win your case if we can't understand WTF you are trying to say.
I also have to say that making three straight, unanswered replies to the same post makes you look like you are defending a losing position. None of us besides the two of you know exactly what was said in your PM's, but her "side" is sounding a LOT more believable than yours right about now.
It seems like you have gotten off to a rather rocky start here, and right now most of us are likely thinking "where there is this much smoke, there must be fire". I know that's what's going through my mind right now, and quite honestly I "wanted" to give you the benefit of the doubt.
Hey gambler I really don't care. A woman puts me down says I live in a ghetto because she thinks she's better than me because where she lives. I wasn't interested in those providers anyway.
Well this'll help your cause. Wow.
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Many of us though ponygirl was kind of douchy before. But on this thread he has completely exposed himself as a Giant Douchenozzle.
Thanks, ponygirl!
You really should just go away, ya know?