First let me say that those of you who know me will find this out of character for me, but I just had one of those days and feel the need to vent.  I have gotten very selective in the last several months on who I play with and today I found myself in a mood so I started looking.  I had seen this provider's posts in the past and looked at her reviews that were favorable so when I saw her post at about 1:40 today I sent a text to make contact.  She responded quickly and I called shortly thereafter when I could.  She asked for references and asked me to text the information to her, which I did.  After checking my references (I assumed) she then text me saying she would let me know when she got where she was going and asked me how long it would take for me to get to her location.  I was about 20 to 30 min away and said so.

This conversation took place about 1:55 so I assumed based on HER question to me that she would be available shortly.  My schedule is usually pretty tight so that timeframe just happened to work out well.  I then get a text from her asking if I could make it 4:15 ( it is now just after 2:00)and that she really wanted to see me.  I told her that would be tight for me but I could be in the area of the location around that time to call me and let me know where it is when she got there.  She then asked me to stay put as she was not sure she could be there at 4:15 it might be later.  I agreed but then she said lets do it another day.  During this interchange (between 1:55 and about 2:30) I had my schedule rearranged by other forces than myself which opened me up to an even later appointment. I shot her another text advising that my schedule had changed and I could meet her later if she was still interested.  She said great, was on her way, and would let me know when she got there.  That was at 3:58 p.m.  I drove to the area where she said she would be at about 4:30 to await further instructions. At no time did I ask where she would be and I was never told a location, only an area.  I fully respect that as I realize you ladies put your safety first.  At 4:50 I sent a two word text to her "any progress", no reply.  At 5:30 I sent her the following, "guess you got held up or something else came up, heading home".  It is now 6:23 and I have heard nothing.

Now, I understand these wonderful ladies dont know who we are when we meet the first time.  I realize they are putting themselves out there in the face of who knows what danger.  I get that.  If this young lady got cold feet or had a bad feeling, fine, just say so, I understand.  Would not be the first time and wont be the last.  If something came up, let me know, I understand, things happen.  Theses ladies expect us to treat them with respect and courtesy, why should I not expect the same.

I have been a member of this board a long time, and have had for the most part nothing but wonderful experiences with the ladies I have seen.  I have become friends with some and go out of my way to help them when they need it.  I am certainly not going to judge these ladies as a whole based on one frustrating experience, and would hope we men would not be judged based on the senseless, rude or inconsiderate actions of a few men.

So I sit here, frustrated and horny, and felt the need to vent.  I will not review this experience as I do not feel that would be fair, just as I have refrained from posting bad reviews for the very few bad experiences I have had in the past as I realize sometimes personalities don't click or people just have bad days.  I just felt the need to express myself and thank you for your indulgence.

I will just say, please, in the future, show each other some respect and have respect for each others time and energy put into this hobby.  Women spend time preparing for a visit from us and put off others to meet with us when we make appointment.  Men arrange schedules and travel and expend hard earned cash to enjoy the company of a selected lady, so lets play nice.

Thank you and goodnight.