and while I was always able to "get off" I always walked away with a rather empty feeling and I won't repeat with an "ice queen" no matter how hot she is. I might as well jack off to porn rather that fuck a woman who plainly wants to be anywhere else but with me.

of the Brazilian houses you could cum across a few that were legit 9's but far from GFE.
Fortunately, there were many 8's and 9's that were.

after my divorce maybe 10 years ago.I wasn't VIP yet on TER and she was an absolute Playboy model material- but performance was way below expectations- she did look awesome. Still does- Cheers.

Yes, but it's pretty rare these days with TER and the ability to research.  Thank goodness.  I'll take an average lady with enthusiasm, a good attitude, and a solid skill set over a true beauty that has no idea what she's doing in the bedroom any day.

In the civvie world it seems generally the hotter a girl is the more likely it is she thinks she doesn't have to actually do anything in bed because she's hot.  Fortunately the hobby world doesn't work that way.  And I have been happy to have enjoyed women on all points on the attractiveness scale that are excellent performers.  It's one of the many reasons I prefer the hobby world over the real world.

You always know what you are getting.

There are some naturally born ice queens .. Hotter
they are cooler they are in bed. Agree with
electron and others .. more in civvie life. My wife is an example
anyway, in TER and hobby world .. they are rare bc you can do
the research and you have a much better odds.
But nothing is full proof though .. I had two such cases in
last 7 years .. but there I also wondered was it me or she had a bad day
I will never know

GG

Or at least most men have. In any sexual situation, we are attracted to (insert preferences here) & she to us. Yet the sex seems more IKEA than art. You see the pictures and say "I want one of those!:

Sometimes the overall experience feels more like a bookshelf you two have made because your peg A fits her slot B well enough, and you did it enough to finish the job. Nice result, but the experience making it was meh. The bookshelf sits in the corner gathering dust until one of you decide to dust off once in a while and reaches out to the other. After all, it's too nice of a shelf to ignore.

Other times, what you get is a more of a piece of pottery like a coffee cup. Wet hands and raw materials come together kneading and spinning and smoothing. You each freehand some decorations before firing it up to give it that final glaze. Viola! Now you both have something you want to fill up over and over again. Particularly in the morning.

Which reminds me. I need some coffee to smooth this morning wood....

Naughty as usual, ga_kosh

I always prefer GND who can perform to model who can't.