Newbies take it from an "Oldie: Don't EVER stick to one provider and call her your ATF. Keep at least 4 or 5 ATF's and rotate between each of them, so if one or two of your ATF's start misbehaving or taking you for granted, you can replace 'em with new ATF's
I have been a bad girl lately...
In any event, if you need help finding more "ATF's", try this service, lol!
xoxo
Caylee
was taken on a personal trip to the Greek Isles and is still sore all over.
What does that mean?
And how can a Provider take a hobbyist for granted?
Are you not a willing participant?
Looks like you are an unhappy camper, my dear.
I'd like to know how a Provider "misbehaves". Do tell...
s.k.
And how can a Provider take a hobbyist for granted?
Are you not a willing participant?
Looks like you are an unhappy camper, my dear.
I'd like to know how a Provider "misbehaves". Do tell...
s.k.
4+ years is probably too long to hang around anyone, especially a provider, the jadedness with the business, and it's probably now time to move on.
Here's my beef with her.....
*****She calls and tells me she's available, I call back and leave a message and she calls a week or so later.
*****I recently scheduled a time to meet my ATF, approximately 45 minutes before our scheduled session, she called to ask me if we could meet an hour or so after our original scheduled time. Apparently her friend, a provider, was using her room and was running late(client arrived late). I was ticked off but I grudgingly agreed, she told me she knew I would understand.
******A month or so earlier on another date we both agreed to meet at 12 noon, however unbeknown to me she had scheduled a 2 hr session for 10AM with someone else. Apparently the guy showed up 30-45minutes late and wanted his full 2 hrs so I was left waiting for 30-45 minutes in the hotel parking lot. I guess she assumed wrongly that the guy would be done in less than 2hrs. I almost decided to leave.
*****I've never understood her haste in getting up after the "main act", some gals lay with you and cuddle for a short while, as long as you still have money in the clock. She does not even make an attempt to help clean me up after the act.
All your comments are appreciated.....
Thanks
Here's my beef with her.....
*****She calls and tells me she's available, I call back and leave a message and she calls a week or so later.
*****I recently scheduled a time to meet my ATF, approximately 45 minutes before our scheduled session, she called to ask me if we could meet an hour or so after our original scheduled time. Apparently her friend, a provider, was using her room and was running late(client arrived late). I was ticked off but I grudgingly agreed, she told me she knew I would understand.
******A month or so earlier on another date we both agreed to meet at 12 noon, however unbeknown to me she had scheduled a 2 hr session for 10AM with someone else. Apparently the guy showed up 30-45minutes late and wanted his full 2 hrs so I was left waiting for 30-45 minutes in the hotel parking lot. I guess she assumed wrongly that the guy would be done in less than 2hrs. I almost decided to leave.
*****I've never understood her haste in getting up after the "main act", some gals lay with you and cuddle for a short while, as long as you still have money in the clock. She does not even make an attempt to help clean me up after the act.
All your comments are appreciated.....
Thanks
This is certainly not meant to be hurtful, but take it as a wake-up call. You enabled. All the things that she "did" to you, you allowed for them to happen.
An ATF is more than just a hot body, a pretty face, a great session... she is all encompassing, she is what you want every time... If you decide to label someone as your ATF, please make sure she actually is ATF-worthy. Based on your side of the story, she was not.
Sounds like she just started to take advantage of you and the relationship, and kept pushing to see how far she could....too far. When you get taken for granted, you move on....
Are you suggesting khori that a provider cannot misbehave or take advantage of a hobbyist? I'm sure that you can think of at least a few ways this can be done. I'm sure many hobbyists can attest to some "misbehavior". Taking advantage, pushing boundaries, breaking promises, etc etc...
Are we not all willing participants?
Although it's sounds like misbehaving is a little juvenile. I would have maybe used a different verb. That's all.
You read me wrong.
Many a time I've been reminded that loyalty or kindness to some is a weakness to be exploited.
Yet I have been fortunate to also meet some exceptional ladies and I can understand how disappointed you are that she decided to act badly. To many money rules all, and this persons short sightedness and acting badly cost her a customer, her loss .
tc 2hot
Didn't you get in the hobby to get rid of that ATF/GF/SO in the first place. You couldn't stand not having variety and you want to get right back into it.
Variety is the spice of hobby!
I finally realized what I was missing when I started seeing other gals. I'm sorta pissed that it took me so long.
sounds like ax grinding versus an epiphany......
First- I agree with Freudian_Frolic, if that was the usual act your ATF pulled, then your standards were too low, and you allowed her to do so.Time to find new lady(ies), as that is what you now realize.
Second- About ATFs (or "near ATFs"), I have a few ladies that I DO see over and over that meet these categories, because the experience is "off the wall". That's why ATFs (All Time Fun (session)) get repeat visits from me, because I go in knowing that the experience is going to be fantastic (looks, activity, conversation, timeliness- but time is not that big a deal to me as i am single & most of my sessions are out-call now at my private Batcave).
I would only would stop going to an ATF or near-ATF if the level of fun diminishes ,or if the price becomes too high for my wallet (it can happen-the lady gets popular and knows she deserves more...just wish the "grandfather" price would be in vogue...and I'm not talking about my age,,,or maybe I am- LOL). I guess in both instances I would probably say nothing to the lady, and just move on- that's just me as I do not feel the need to be confrontational in this hobby.
In other situations where i do not repeat, the experience was still great (in all of my choices so far, but I do a lot of homework or get great recommendations), but I choose to try some variety in lots of other non-ATF cases.
So- ATFs still get my business, but I continue to sample the menu.
Lot's of great gals out there, enjoy them! 
my vendors. It's amazing how badly they all want to keep my business when they know there's ample competition out there.
Thats good advice seeing as though I keep about 2 or 3 but 4 or 5 are a bit much and might make my wife suspicious heh...